How soon after your spouse leaves you........?

he broke his vows after screwing someone else... you are finished.. except for paperwork.. dont wait around, move on with your life.

I am going threw the same thing. And i am nervous about it. My ex was doing the same thing to me. I see beautiful women all the time around me but not sure if it is too soon to ask one out. I have just been playing it by ear, i guess when it is time you will just know, we both new once before (even though sounds like we both need to talk to the luv guru, lol) you will know when you know. If you need to go on a date to find out if your ready i think that it would be ok. Hell i hope that helped. lol

I would make sure I am seperated first legally and are there children involved and then I would start dating and get that divorce asap

whenever you feel like it's the right time because you don't want to go on the rebound and do things you'll regret later. So the decision is up to you!!

Thats up to you,l how you feel and when you are ready, take the time you need and make sure the next time you do it right.

When ever you want too. There's plenty of fish out here, I'm a Flounder so I sand it alot.

that's up to you. i give you credit for wanting to so soon. i still don't have my self confidence back to even think about dating. he made me feel worthless and ugly when he left me for another woman. good luck too you. i admire your confindence!

as soon as you feel you are ready. be it today or next year go for it

Well you already cheated so when ever you want.