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A "No Contact Order" was issued against my boyfriend, but there was no violence committed by him to me, it's..

my jealous ex-husband that does not want him around my children. My boyfriend that I knew 24 years ago and has come back into my life more than 1 year ago.

My ex-husband is trying to gain full custody of my 14 year old girl and my 16 year old boy.

My boyfriend has a legal past, but it's just that. It's his past. He has done nothing to my kids. The oldest, 20 year old, worked for him for a while. He has done nothing to my ex and his wife.

So does anyone know what the conditions are in Nevada. Can I appeal? I have a court date in November after the children are being evaluated.

What are my options?

Have you heard of a Judge granting a "No Contact Order" based on someones past?

Update:

My ex went to court. Hoping for a restraining order against a man he never met, my current boyfriend, however the judge granted him a no contact order to stay away from my children. Youngest ones of course. Based on my boyfriends transcripts from his trail.

So there we are, my jealous ex wants full custody, my children are getting interviewed and trail is set for November.

Give me something to go on. My boyfriend just wants to have a relationship with me and be left alone!

Update 2:

The "No Contact Order" was issued against my boyfriend, but he was never given such a notice, nor asked to appear in court. So I will be held responsible if there is contact.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Can you appeal? Maybe, I don't know. But even if you can, I think your chances are slim.

    What are your options? Well . . . you have two options: You can do what a prudent law-abiding person would do, and not invite him into any circumstance that would violate the order. Or you can intentionally facilitate the violation the order and take your chances with further legal action, including losing custody of your kids.

    Have I heard of a judge granting an order based upon someone's past? Of course! What else could he possibly have to go on?

    The judge's only interest is in protecting the kids. Apparently there is something in this guys past that indicates to the judge that he poses an unacceptable risk to the kids. That's all there is to it.

    By contrast, if your boyfriend had a history of *responsible* behavior, then there would be no issue.

    Of course, you have to realize that associating with this guy may lead one to question your own judgment as well . . .

  • 1 decade ago

    A judge will easily issue a no contact order based on someone's criminal history where children are involved. They'd rather make a mistake in overly protecting the children, rather than not protecting them enough. At the hearing you'll have an opportunity to show your side but it will be difficult to overcome a father saying "As a parent, I don't want my kids around a convicted criminal".

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    4 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    its always possible, but normally a judge won't grant one without cause to believe he poses a current threat to your children.

    My husband's ex threatened to do the same thing to me with his daughter, but when he told her she was basically crazy if she though a judge would grant it to her based on the fact that I provided health insurance to their child, I started a college fund for their child, that I was the one that bought the gifts for the child and have never threatened her or the mother in any way she quickly dropped that method of trying to come between my husband and I.

    But get a lawyer because my motto is never say never, with a past your ex could get a lawyer that could make it sound very likely that the past doesn't always stay in the past and the judge could buy it.

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  • 1 decade ago

    You need to be a little bite more fact specific

    Who went to court? your ex? and your ex had an no contact order issued against your boyfriend in regard to your ex or your children?

  • 1 decade ago

    I think the no contact order is fabricated. Only one who can issue a no contact order is the person who doesn't want contact. In your case it would have had to of been you who ordered the order. Unless Nevada has some effed up regulations .

  • 1 decade ago

    It depends on what the "past" is. A conviction for child molestation is a lot different than grand theft auto.

    See a lawyer.

  • 1 decade ago

    I wish u luck:)

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