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Bored in a relationship or what?
Im married for 4 years. I feel bored with my spouse. Although i love him dearly, but i dont feel we ever connected on a higher level other than physical. I dont feel that hes my soulmate or truly understands me. I feel that hes a man doll that I slepp with and I think hes dumb cuz its hard for me to talk to him and he doesnt understand anything much. He seems to be smarter before we married. i sometimes fantasize about slepping with other men who are better looking and are smarter than him. what do I do? i feel guilty and i cant leave
Is there someone like a soulmate that truly understand u without u having to work hard at it or are all relationships just hard work?
3 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
You need to rediscover who you married, I mean think back to why you married your husband. Fantasizing is not wrong, its more like "mentally window shopping". As for relationships, you have to find someone you genuinely connect with, and yes you have to work at the relationship. Life is no romantic comedy, its real, Real Love Real Heartache.
- 1 decade ago
Try to rediscover what you saw in him in the first place. I certainly don't suggest that you leave him. I do however symphathize with you because nothing is more sexy than a person with a good head on their shoulders. You seem to be the smart one in this relationship so figure out how to make it work.
- 1 decade ago
ok it takes two to make a marriage to work and it sounds like you two need to spend time getting to know the other better you need to find out what he likes and vice versa and this goes for in and out of the bed room also you have to know the different between lust and love you love him then make it work and try but if you don't then stop wasting both of yours time.
