ok, here is another one, what is this bug? He buzzed really loud, and was about an inch wide?

This is a deerfly:http://cirrusimage.com/fly_deer_Chrysops.htm

This is a horsefly:http://cirrusimage.com/fly_horse_Tabanus.htm

That fly really doesn't look like either one of these flies,so I have no clue. I think it is a type of deerfly,though.

Yes, it is a horsefly or "deer fly" one of many species. The clear wings with black markings confirm this.

Horsefly

We get them around my house and my horses literally jump at the sound and sight of them...they leave a nsaty bite!

It looks to me like some sort of Horsefly.

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