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recently split and hes beeing extremly selfish?

I have recently slipt from boy partner of 3 and a half years and have just moved out of our house to live with some girlfriends, befor we broke up i found out that he had been talking about me with people from work these people where some of the new blokes that had only been there for a month or so he was saying some awful things as soon as the lease was up he was kicking me out ect ect .

When i moved out he said he still wanted to be friends the day i was going to move out i went to collect my things ( i had been helping a friend with a garge sale all morning) and walked in the door to find one of the boys that he was talk about me to had moved into the spare room where my computer and some of my horse gear was kept, witch was all dumped in side the front door.

Once i ahd moved out he told me that he wanted to stay friends bla bla bla a couple of days later he told me he wanted to try and date(each other) as did i because i still loved him, he came over one we had sex and then..

Update:

i barley heard from him and i kept inviting him to spend time together he did one but inbetween he never called or anything, have have invited him to come and watch movies and he says he is to tired or makes some excuse, this morning i invited him to dinner tonight with a couple of OUR mates and some of my girl friends once again he declined, i asked him if we should bother and he straight out said no then promptly said ok cya.

i really love this guy. i dont know what to do after 3 and a half years its like he couldnt care less. please help me i have no self confidence to move on, and am very hurt and depressed, we all so lived together for 3 years

Update 2:

by the way i know there is no possible way there is another lady friend or anything... and for those of you who wanted to know how old i am im 23 and he is 25

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Maybe its time you realised it all over.There is no point in going after him when he treats you like dirt.Move on and forget about him.You deserve better.Good luck.

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