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was i just another notch in the belt?
i haven't come out to anyone but my best friend who is also bisexual. when i told her that i liked girls too we both went to a club where this really sexy girl asked me to dance. i didn't take her up on the offer until i went a few more times and then she pursued me relentlessly until i said yes to a date. i was so stupid to have slept with her. it's been three days and not a word. i haven't rang her because i feel humiliated. but am i just another notch? i feel as though she took liberties of the fact it was my first time with another woman. i'm really upset and i want to ring her and give her a good verbal thrashing
i'm not a virgin!! i've done it with men before
10 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Trust your instincts. Rather than a phone call,write her a letter.
With a letter you can describe what you are feeling and you can edit,re-edit and it also gives you the choice of sending it or not.
With a phone call there is always the chance you may say something you regret.
Love,Peace And Nature.
C.B.
- ?Lv 45 years ago
Wow that asserting is reallllly previous! So, taking that into the element, 20 notches in view that 1950's (consistent with video clips from that era)? that's nevertheless a lotta women which you have been'nt good sufficient to get into it with back. do no longer think of you extremely have lots to gloat approximately. What are those notches asserting? Wow that became over so quickly, i did no longer even end blinking, and now I nevertheless might desire to stress approximately STD's!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Ok - well, unless you met outside of the club then i would think that there was no relationship implied and therefore her not calling isn't really a big surprise - are you surprised?
Some people sleep with others before getting into a relationship with them - maybe she will talk to you again the next time you are in the club?
I just kind of feel that it wasn't her taking advantage - but you being a little niave... people go to clubs to get drunk, dance and take someone home.
You being a virgin isn't her responsibility - it is yours to find someone special to lose it with if you are going to be upset afterwards.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
could be a notch. could be a power play - she wants you to want her, she pursued you until you said yes and she wants you to contact her (as if to say it was good and worth it). could be she lost your number.
why do you feel humiliated? call her and talk with her about it. if she turns you down, then you're a notch. still not worth being humiliated about.
i've been on both sides (notcher and notchee). as notcher, i'm really attracted and have wonderful sex. i'm just not into a relationship at the time. it's physical and i'm looking for the best. so it's a compliment, really (in my twisted notcher-role mind) to love and leave the most beautiful and satisfying...
don't take it wrong - it may not be that at all....
call and listen and talk.
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- Jnr528Lv 51 decade ago
games games games. she might be thinking just like you...that she was a notch on your belt. no one calls, even though you clearly want to. so call! you don't have to wait. put it out there. say that you had a good time and would like to get together again. if she says no, at least you know how she feels. but you might be surprised too!
- 1 decade ago
she could have liked the fact that she was your first but she pursued you so much which makes me thinks she was very interested in you...give it at least a week
- 1 decade ago
perhaps she is thinkin the same as you.... drop her a text.... just ask how she is and stuff... you never know she may have been waiting for you to call her xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
- MathsTutorLv 41 decade ago
When will we learn that some people are just very cynical about copping off?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Text her and say what's up
- Anonymous1 decade ago
yup you were.
Source(s): i would so totally gloat about this but that would be way too mean......