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religious mother-in-law?
my girlfriend's mother is very religious and has a problem with her daughter being gay. she doesnt want the two of us to see each other at all. i was suppose to meet up with my girlfriend today and her mother was parked outside of my house. she believes that my family doesnt have morals because my parents are okay with me being a lesbian. my girlfriend and i have been together for a little bit over a month. i love her and she loves me. we're in love. but her mother is making it impossible to be together.
my question is: is this a test to see how much we can go through together or a sign that we should try it again in a couple of years?
she's 18 and i'm 17. i know everything about statutory rape and thats not an issue. she loves her mother very much and doesnt plan on moving out just yet. my parents are very supportive and agree with whatever i choose to do about the situatuion.
any takes on the situtatuion are welcome.
8 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Get a restraining order against the mother in law, cite stalking as a justifiable reason. The next time she does it, call the cops and have her arrested and jailed. Let her pray on that.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
who's doing this testing? god? her mother? that strange thing of life?
i personally don't think in terms of tests and fate and destiny. this is something that you and your love are going thru with an obstacle of her mom. so, choices: do it on the sly (pretend it's over and see each other secretly), force your/her independence (confront said mom and state that either leniency or move out, for example), postpone for a year or two while trying to remain true to each other. on and on the scenarios go.
assuming that her mom loves her, too. why not try all three sitting down (or even with your folks - go out to eat somewhere) and discuss it? stranger things have happened....
- ?Lv 45 years ago
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- munkiLv 61 decade ago
Your girlfriend is 18-it's none of her Mother's business if you date.She needs to back off & leave you guys alone.As for her insulting your family,that was just rude.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
ug.....
i hate poeple like that....
if i were you ....welll....meh....
i know what i would do but i dont think you would do it...
but it sounds like you do love her a lot so
i would just try to stay together and if you by some smalll smalllllllll really really small inch do break up i would try agin when mom wasnt a round to see..
- kwazywabbottLv 71 decade ago
She has no control over you. Just make sure the two of you let her know that in no uncertain terms.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Oh just stick with the gf if you are happy. This gal will have a lifetime of grief from that witch. Irregardless if you are in her life or not. Keep your happiness.
- Kim CLv 41 decade ago
oh please leave the girl alone you are helping her dis obey her parents,Find a new girl her parents did their best to try to raise this girl the right way and here comes another issue can you imagine how this feels to a parent,go bother someone else's child.And please read Leviticus 18:22 when you have a chance.