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"take a break"?

whats your thought on "taking a break" in a relationship?

my gf and i cant see each other because of her mother, so we're "taking a break". we love each other, it just hurts to much to watch our relationship go down the drain. we're going to try again when things cool down with her mother.

Update:

i'm 17. she's 18.

Update 2:

the whole mall thing was our plan yesterday. she was going out with another friend and as soon as they left the house her mother drove over to my house and parked outside.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Nothing goes down the drain, unless you pull the plug out. Be patient, some things are so very worth waiting for!

  • 1 decade ago

    uh....legally her mother can't do that because that's stalking or entrapment however u wanna call it when u leave the house or watever is none of her business. and as i see it obviously her mom don't agree with ur relationship well that will be hard since if u to really love each other then why not stick together and only things like that will drive u closer if u know romeo and juliet they were fueding families but they both loved each other and we all know how that ended. so why not stay commited to each other and let it be ur her support for how her mother is acting so she has a shoulder to cry on. my gf's grandparents are the same way very weird and treat the both of us like ****. but if u take a break that only ;eads to trouble and for the both of u to fall away from each other. and turn intestes to other ppl. If u love each other then be each others support. when do u turn 18?? since she's already 18 she don't hafta listen to her mom and if u don't have a job already get one and she can as well to save up money for the both of u to live in ur own house. sorry apt. then u won't hafta deal with her mom trying to keep u apart. but as far as her parking at ur house call the damn cops and tell them wat she's doing and say u fear for ur life or somthing because to sit in somenes drive way like that is creepy in my opinon.

  • 1 decade ago

    how old are the 2 of you. if your old enough you can still find ways to see each other with out her mother knowing. try going to the mall and see a movie together or something like that.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    her mother is crazy, and something should be done about that.

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