what would you think of your spouse if you went on the computer and found pictures in files of women at the?

That's what she gets for snooping in your files...

Nothing no different than looking at soft Porn or going to the single sites like the last lady asked its all just looking and remember most of those bodies are drybrushed lol its just a pic so don't try to size yourself up to that im sure you know how society is hard on women. I'd to the same but get the chippendales on your screne lol

I totally disagree with that. That used to drive me crazy! It all depends on what you feel comfortable with. If it kinda makes your blood boil but you don't have the power to give him an altimatum then get some power back and post pics of men on yours. I don't know why people try to rationalize guy's behavior all the time. I know they're visual but hey we like sexy pics too and why should we continue to have a lump in our throats and feel like we have no say just because the world thinks they can't help keeping those pics. Same thing with guys staying out late. He does it, you do it. I mean only if it bothers you.

I guess I would think that he likes to look at gals in thong bathing suits. Men are very 'visible' in their preferences and enjoy 'looking'....and as long as he just looks and doesn't 'touch', then be thankful.

You know him better than we do. If it bothers you to the point of driving you crazy and affecting your attitude and how you treat him....then do him a favor and share your feelings/fears with him.

I would think "hmmm, he likes photos of women in thongs" and then I would make sure the only photos of a woman in a thong on his computer was me! Since you know what he likes, get out the digitial camera and email him some of you! The only sexy, lingerie, naked woman, naughty photos in my computer are the ones my wife sends me of her to brighten my day. Maybe you should brighten his day so he doesn't have to look at others in thongs.

As long as it's not the same woman in the photos i would think nothing of it. I've confronted my man about it and he has told me that when I'm not willing to submit he looks at thngs like this to arouse himself..I just take it as thankful he's not going after other women. At first it crushed me b/c I thought he was no longer attracted to me..talk to him about it and see what his reasoning is. To be honest sometimes I'm glad my man has things like that to look at or watch so I don't have to assist!

Ask him why? Who? When? They may have been sent to him and he downloaded them. May be just as innocent as if someone had sent you the photos. Second, is there anyone else who lives in the house and uses the computer? Third, were they hidden in a file? If not, then you have no problem, why you haven't brought this to his attention and talked to him about it, is my concern.. Talk to your husband.

i would ask him about it. don't confront him with anger, b/c then he will get defensive. just say "i came across x, y and z and naturally was surprised, where are those pictures from? you guys are married so there is no reason why you can't ask him about it. you should be able to tell by his response if he is lying or feels uncomfortable, etc., and that will give you your answer. (not what he says but by his initial reaction). good luck

nothing. that means he is sitll alive.

we will always find other females atractive, unless we are 70years old and viagra no longer works.

because we like seeing sexy glrs walk down the street or watch porn on our laptop does not mean we dont love our spouse, and nor does it mean we would ever cheat.

this is who we are. you have to accept us.

my spouse lets me wath porn online, she lits me check out naked pix online. but she know for sure i would never even think of doing anything beyoun that. and i make her feel loved everyday. there's not a day i dont make her feel like im ready to have her in bed.

Confront him and ask him to get rid of them or get rid of you and be for real about it .Those pictures should have been gone when you 2 got married. No if and or buts about it.Stay strong about it.Good Luck.

That wouldn't bother me. Guys are very visual and like to look. Now, if he starts chatting, that's a completely different story.