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Why do women insist on putting everything under a microscope?

Every woman I've ever dated has always put anything I do under scrutiny, why can't they justy accept that I'm just being nice and I want to do nice things for them? My last girlfriend always thought I was "up to something" and I couldn't do anything nice for her without her suspecting me of being "up to something."

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  • 1 decade ago
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    been there. usually anyone thats had some crappy past or been through some horrible relationships will be a skeptic. Usually girls like this tend to be damaged, i hate to be so negative but if you've dealt with this you know what i mean.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Women don't put everything under a microscope. Your girlfriends have. ^_^ I'd like to think it has something to do with age, but even at university there are a lot of suspicious and nervous girls who lack enough confidence to not question minor events as signs of huge problems. Just keep looking. :)

  • ?
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    4 years ago

    nicely, no offense yet you sound somewhat conceited. have you ever seen seeing a doctor approximately stress? i'm no physician, besides the incontrovertible fact that it sounds to me such as you'll be able to be stricken by some form of social stress illness. until you spot a professional....i decide to propose eating a nil.5 a pitcher of wine (adequate to calm your nerves...no longer get inebriated) in the past particular events that make you uneasy. I did that in the past an interview as quickly as....breezed good by it and have been given the job! distinctive strokes for various persons, nevertheless. good success. ***P.S!!!! consume some thing different than vegetables...your sugar point may well be out of wack & that could reason the shakes and who's accustomed to what else!!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I know how you feel. It was always made out ot be, like, I had some special scheme that I wanted to unveil, when in fact, all I tried to do was treat them like they're the best girl in the whole world. If it was a jerk on the other hand, then everything would be all good, becayse they see their "challenge" right n front of them.

    Whatever we do, it's just not enough for them, no matter what. I hate to talk like this, but even when you do everything right, it's not enough.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I hate getting hurt, and I hate having the lowerhand. I don't want to get played so I'm always very cautious.

    Believe it or not, women get hurt to, and we tend to over think everything. We just don't want to get our hearts broken...and the ones that already have, have their hearts on extra high security.

  • 1 decade ago

    Women constantly do what you are describing. It is their way of keeping us guys off balance and on the defense. Get used to it. Just don't turn cold or hard because of it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Not every woman is like that. I am a very accepting person, and would hope that you would realize that you are choosing the wrong type of women!

    ssıʞ kiss

  • 1 decade ago

    Its unusual for guys to be so nice to us women unless they're up to something.. So SOME women are like that because they're insecure..

    Source(s): Its just the way we are ..=) leave it or take it
  • 1 decade ago

    because there are so many dirty men and women dont wanna get heart but any way women are very prettective of there men they just watch out for there babys

  • 1 decade ago

    its not all women, its some women. im not personaly like that, i love nice guys but there are sum girls who if you are nice they will think your tryin 2 get somethin so pick your girls better

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