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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Do you feel alone? Can you ever trust someone?

Do you ever get strange bouts of loneliness out of the blue?

Also, ever feel that you can trust no one because someone will always betray you?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Yeah I do, it has been very hard for me to come across somebody who will be there for me emotionally...and when you don't have someone who's there in that capacity, it's very easy to feel an overwhelming sense of loneliness...it's when you;re essentially "on your own", with nobody to turn to....A very difficult position to be in....something people can't understand unless they've been there themselves....

    With regards to trust, I also often feel that way - my trust and faith in people has been used and abused so many times in my life, hat I do sometimes find it really hard to trust people....it all depends on the person - someone who truly cares about you will want to know you for who you are, how you think, and what has made you the person you are today...and when you find someone like that, you have pretty much found the person to help with the above problem (loneliness)....When someone finally takes the time to know and understand you, it generally shows that they're not out to betray you...that they're more likely to care, reassure you and be there for the long haul....

    Source(s): Personal experience.
  • 1 decade ago

    Yeah. I do feel lonely sometimes. I mean, i live in a little town. there are people i can meet ALL over the world and i'm not. Yeah, i would be afraid of dateing someone i passionately care about, cuz usually when that happens, they break your heart. Especially right when you feel it good be something. That's the way it goes when you usually find a friend too.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I go through this daily...seems to me I always get screwed over by the ones i trust the most, so I tend push people away. Mostly when it comes to romantic relationships. Any way, Naturally, I get terribly lonely because I end up alone.

  • M & M
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    yeah, I know what you mean, I get lonely just out of the blue like that sometimes. And as far as the trust, yeah I get that too. Its hard to feel like you can trust when someone lets you down

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  • 1 decade ago

    Yes! My parents have been there financially but never emotionally, girlfriends I make always stab me in the back over jealousy & boyfriends always seem 2 disappoint me. Which is why Im a huge animal lover, they will never break your trust & love you no matter what!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    thats exactly how i feel one minute you can be fine and then one person just has to say one thing and it can throw you right?

    i hate it i really do it makes me feel so down.

    i have never had a good relationship with my mother, although i know she has to love me because i am her daughter she never shows it, i have an amazing boyfriend but he can always make me feel down (unintentionally) i thought when i went to college it would all get better cause i would meet more friends and be more outgoing but if anything it got worse i have become really quiet and cant concentrate on my studies, the only thing tht makes me feel any better seems to be listening to other peoples problems and giving advice cause it makes me feel better knowing other people have problems too, selfish i know but y'kno it helps

  • 1 decade ago

    sometimes i feel lonely... but that's just because i really am alone somewhere...

    and i can always trust someone.

    so CHEER UP!!!! dont be sad.... =0( can turn into =0) very easily....

    so try to be HAPPY. =0)

    ~making the world a better place.. =0)

    p.s. wats with yahoo's new answer and ask program thingy.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    im sure everyone feels that way sometimes. and as hard as it is to belive, trusting someone can do wondes for you. make you feel better, and so happy that you know whatever you told the person you trust, will stay with them forever, and they would nevr tell anyone(unless ofcourse the secret is a danger to yourself or others)

  • hamson
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    you do not deserve what's happening and it is not your fault. i've got examine your different questions too and you need to get out of that subject. you're saying your counsellors attempt to assist. in the adventure that your nevertheless there - they are not attempting not elementary sufficient. Is there an person on your existence which you believe? perhaps the mummy of a chum, a undeniable aunt, instructor, preparation counsellor or minister. locate somebody who will hear to you and supply you a secure and being concerned abode.

  • 1 decade ago

    trust is a very difficult subject i believe that you have to be able to trust them to trust you some people give a lot of chances and others don't if it takes to long to gain trust maybe it's fake trust

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