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My Boyfriend Wants Our Relationship Kept Secret...?
I love him to bits, but I'm his first really, serious girlfriend and he wants to keep our relationship a secret from the school we are at. We are best friends and people say we should date, but he says they will bag us out for it. Our school is immature and will never know what love is, the way those kids are going. I want the whole world to know and I want to kiss him and hold him in public, but its not possible. Any help with trying ot convince him and how/where can I kiss him? Where is a private place? I never see him out of school but we both really want this.
Even I am confused now.
11 Answers
- <Ryan>Lv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
NOOOO!!
Love should NEVER be kept a secret, even like that. If people around you are immature then just ignore it but you shouldn't keep it a secret. That's not healthy. Just because they don't understand you doesn't mean you should keep you're relationship a secret.
Theres immature people anywhere you go, you just have to learn to accept that their completely stupid and will never understand you.
He should want to brag about you and show you off to the whole world. Keeping it a secret sounds like he is embarrassed or something.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Don't keep it a secret. I don't understand what the immaturity of the other kids got to do with your relationship. Just don't do something stupid. It is also unfair to you and to the people around you. Making it a secret will make you feel like you are doing something wrong, and it will be hard on you, emotionally.
- 1 decade ago
me and my bf kept our relationship secret for a gd few months!
the start of a relationship is gr8 its romantic and fun! enjoy it!
keping it secret adds a bit of mystery!
when we did tel every1 they wer happy 4 us!
we went 2 meet in hotels and went on holiday 2gether! we acted like a proper couple but when we wer out with friends at clubs it was great because he couldnt show any attention 2 me nor me 2 him and by the end of the nite we just wanted each other!
it kept the luv alive!
- ?Lv 44 years ago
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Don’t watch her mouth and wonder what it would feel like to kiss her. Don’t stare at her chest and imagine what she looks like naked. Really listen to what she is saying then give an intelligent response, preferably on the same subject.
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- 1 decade ago
he might have some reasonable reasons for that, so ask him, if you think it's really that reasonable, then respect it, give him time. and it's not even that pretty to kiss someone in public, keep your relationship private. that ways better.
- 1 decade ago
Why keep love private? Just tell him that you shouldn't hide something like that. Who cares what anyone thinks about what you two have....just do it.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Its a bit suspicious he wants to keep it quiet
- Bear:)Lv 41 decade ago
well, if you do love him and he loves you, then your relationship shouldnt have to be secret. tell him that
- Anonymous1 decade ago
well maybe he doesnt know how to react around you or the others in public
- Anonymous1 decade ago
trust me, you dont want the whole skool to know.becareful what u wish for?