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Why Is It That??????

**Sorry For The Length**

Straight people say, "People are not born gay or lesbian!"

Which I agree that we don't exactly have ANY evidence that people are born gay, but we also don't exactly have any evidence that people are born straight.

So, how does the fact that there is hardly to no scientific evidence that people are born gay or lesbian, prove that homosexuality is abnormal or unnatural?

I mean, I don't believe homosexuality is genetic because heterosexuality hasn't been proven to be genetic. Homosexuality and heterosexuality are both variation of human sexuality and The American Psychological Association along with:

American Psychiatric Association

American Counseling Association

American Anthropological Association

American Psychoanalytic Association

American Academy of Pediatrics

American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy

American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychology

ALL have done research seperately and came to the conclusion that homosexuality is NOT a mental disorder or illness, EVEN though there is no evidence to suggest people are born gay. They ALL believe that homosexuals can love and commit to eachother just as well as heterosexuals commit to each other. I know this because I know same sex couples in long term relationships.

THIS they say proves homosexuality is a normal variation of human sexuality. They go into detail to explain that homosexuality cannot be compared to sexual disorders such as: pedophilia, beastiality, or paraphilia because the studies from people with THOSE disorders do not match either heterosexuality OR homosexuality because they do not have the nature of a relationship that homosexuality and heterosexuality have.

None of the sexual disorders has potential love and commitment, all of them harm someone in some way, and niether party in the relationship of those sexual disorders benefits in a postive way. With homosexuality, both partners benefit from each other in a positive way.

Although homosexuals are considered more depressed than heterosexuals, this is considered due to the way the homosexual is being treated. The homosexuals that are not influenced by homophobia, live happy, normal lives just like heterosexuals, according to ALL those organizations.

If you say "Gay couples cannot reproduce", ok, but what about infertile/sterile couples? They are considered OK but they don't reproduce anymore than homosexual couples, yet religion accepts them.

Also, there are many straight couples that don't have sex to reproduce. Plus sex is rarely used for reproduction anymore.

But back to the original question, why do heterosexuals (straight people) consider homosexuality to be unnatural simply because there is no evidence that people are born gay, when in fact, there is no evidence that straight people are born straight?

Update:

Spiritually Speaking

Update 2:

I know people are born gay. This is for people who say otherwise

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  • Huddy
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I'm sure they have plenty of excuses. The fact is that NO human behavior can be considered "unnatural." We are all a part of nature, and by definition that means our actions cannot be "unnatural."

    Sexuality is not a black and white issue. It's one big spectrum with people landing on various points.

  • 1 decade ago

    Those people that claim that being gay or lesbian is a choice are normally religious fundamentalists.

    They don´t care about anything that science says if it contradicts their holy book/s or their religious concept.

    Homosexuality is an abomination, the holy book/s says so, therefore it must be a choice and can, with strong enough faith (into their religion) be overcome with the result being a "normal" straight person.

    Anyone who doesn´t think so (or even calls homosexuality normal) is either openly lying or deceived oftenby Satan (or whatever entity that opposes their divine entity) .

    I think that should come close enough to their mindset and therefore you can present tons of evidences for homosexuality being a hereditary trait (and something you find as normal behavior in nature) and won´t convince them ;)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    My stance - Even if people are born homosexual or heterosexual, that alone does NOT determine whether the person will actually be homosexual or heterosexual. I disagree with anyone that says they can't change who they are. I've done research by asking people if they have or know anyone who has acted against, on their own free will (that's to say not persuaded or threatened to do so), how they were born. Many said yes. You can search through my Q&As to find these if you wish.

    To say it is unnatural is to say there's something wrong with it. The only thing I could possibly see wrong with it is it doesn't lead to evolutionary progress (no offspring) so the trend will die off eventually.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Straight people just find it hard for people to like the same sex- we don't understand how they can feel this way -since we don't- I have a gay friend and he was not "born" gay and I have a friend (girl) that acted like a boy ever since she was born, was she born gay? who knows?? it is not up to us to judge these people- they have been good friends to me and are always there if I need there help- I am not gay-

    the same sex does not turn me on- now if you read the bible it is a sin and you will be punished for being gay- so that is between them and thier God.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    The American Psychological Association also claim that homosexual sex between a minor and an adult is okay, they have openly supported NAMBLA (Google it). As to why heterosexuals consider homosexuality to be unnatural, perhaps you should consider the definition of "natural" and compare it to the male/female sexual organs. ;-)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Not true.

    I'm straight, and I say people are born gay...

    ...or at the very least, more gay than usual. The groundbreaking research of Dr. Alfred kinsey demonstrated that very few people are 100% straight or gay.

    And further research has demonstrated that an inordinate number of "anti-gay" Christians actually have latent homosexual tendencies.

    Go ahead -- get defensive! You only prove my point...

  • ckrug
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Lev. 18:22, "You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination."

    Lev. 20:13, "If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltness is upon them"

    1 Cor. 6:9-10, "Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the kingdom of God."

    Rom. 1:26-28, "For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, 27and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error. 28And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper."

    Homosexuality is clearly condemned by the Bible. It goes against the created order of God. He created Adam and then made a woman. This is what God has ordained and it is what is right. Unlike other sins, homosexuality has a severe judgment administered by God Himself. This judgment is simple: They are given over to their passions. That means that their hearts are allowed to be hardened by their sins (Romans 1:18ff). As a result, they can no longer see the error of what they are doing. Without an awareness of their sinfulness, there will be no repentance and trusting in Jesus. Without Jesus, they will have no forgiveness. Without forgiveness, there is no salvation.

  • 1 decade ago

    No, i don't believe that people are born gay. I think that it's an enviroment thing. Like with heteosexuals, a man will like a certain girl or women will like certain man because of whatever reason or experience they've had. it's an evviroment thing not a genetic thing.

  • 1 decade ago

    I agree with all this. ;)

    Now for those that say that science and religion cannot be mixed, you're wrong because God created science.

    And for those who claim homosexuality to be a serious sin, did you think about wearing clothing made of only ONE material?

    Leviticus 19:19 "Ye shall keep my statutes. Thou shalt not let thy cattle gender with a diverse kind: thou shalt not sow thy field with mingled seed: neither shall a garment mingled of linen and woollen come upon thee."

    What about getting haircuts?

    Leviticus 19:27 "you shall not round off the side-growth of your heads, nor harm the edges of your beard."

    Have you also taken into account that the bile has been used to justify slavery, the oppression of blacks and women, and the torture of the mentally ill? "Christians" considered all these types of people sinful at one time.

    ALSO, the bible didn't mention homosexuality (in its original texts). This is because homosexuality was not understood. The exts in Leviticus and Romans were used to condemn idol rituals where people would have sex for worship of the idols. Among the practices were when 2 men had sex which was supposedly to guarantee an abundance of wealth. Leviticus and Romans were referring to those rituals.

    The 2 passages that mention the word "homosexual" directly is a translation error since no ord was parallel to the word homosexual in biblical times. The word in Greek "arsenokoitoi" actually translates as "male bedders". It was assumed that this meant "homosexual" because it was thought to mean "males who have sex with other males". Records showing this word elsewhere point that "male bedders" were actually women who seduced men into sex (i.e. prostitutes).

    The fact that the Jews thought of a word for EVERY SIN they could think of, but didn't have a word for "homosexual" is saying something!

    Homosexuals were always said as "men who lie with men" or "women who lie with women" there was no specific word for it, despite how strict the Jews were to think of a word for every sin they could think of.

    The story of Sodom and Gomorrah is NOT a condemnation of homosexuality. We know this because God planned on destroying the city BEFORE the men allegedly wanted to rape the men in the house. That is why the angels were sent to the family in the house BEFORE the men allegedly wanted sexual relations with the men in the house.

    Besides, the story of Sodom is brought up at least several times AFTER Genesis. Homosexuality is NEVER even hinted at!

    Here is one of the verses that refers to Sodom:

    “And whosoever shall not receive you, nor hear you, when ye depart thence, shake off the dust under your feet for a testimony against them. Verily I say unto you, It shall be more tolerable for Sodom and Gomorrha in the day of judgement, than for that city.” Mark 6:11.

    Yes that is Jesus speaking. If homosexuality was a sin as Christians say it is, Jesus would have clearly stated that the sin of sodom is homosexuality.

    Amazingly Jesus never mentions homosexuality. He mentioned a scenario of a heterosexual relationship and many say that he is saying that only heterosexual relationships are acceptable. However I believe that if homosexuaity was as much of a sin as Christians consider it to be, Jesus would NOT hae danced around the subject and would mention it DIRECTLY, but he never does.

    Here are my sources for the above information: http://www.otkenyer.hu/truluck/the_bible_and_homos...

    I know it's hard to get rid of the things that mommy and daddy taught you about the bible, but it does have serious fallacies and errors. Since true christians are about truth, and the bible contains errors, TRUE christians cannot base all their views on the bible.

    Jesus taught that the bible is for guidance and was never meant to be used to teach fear, intolerance, hatred, or negative feelings.

    The ones that bothered Jesus the most were the extremely religious.

    Here is a video that is LONG but is insightfuland I encourage anyone who would like the truth to look at it (hit play if it is not already playing): http://www.soulforce.org/article/homosexuality-deb...

  • I'm straight and don't consider homosexuals to be unnatural. Thus rendering this question obsolete.

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