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Is it a prestigious matter to say that “I am happily married”. How many honestly say so? Why they lie?

Most married don’t share the problems they face. Most of the time it is hidden, till one day it bursts out loud. Why they share or go for couselling to solve the problem.

You wont find many coming and discussing their problems here too... :) I am sure many are here to fight with me on this ....I am provoking ... let me see the result.... lol

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Update:

Dear Gayathri,

Thanks for your answer on marriage. Can I know why you don’t like marriage. If you ask me, I enjoyed life only after marriage.

Many guys would say their college life or bachelor was the gold time of their life. For my the first 2 years of my marriage was the gold period of my life. My wife always says that her life only after marriage is great and she hates the life before.

Don’t hate marriage or give up on marriage. Trust me marriage is great. I am happilly married for 12 years. If given an opportunity again to go back in life, I will marry little early in my life.

If you get a good partner, life is great fun. I pray and wish that you too should get a good partner and a great married life.

May god bless you.

With love

Gentleman

(Since you have not allowed anyone to message you, I am adding in my comments)

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    i think it is a prestigious matter when people say "I am happily married" and i think problem comes to each and every1 of us and sometimes married people do say that our love is not the same as we used to have b4 our marriage or for the 1st year of our marriage ...

    i think couples facing problems should have a big heart and should hold each others hand in time of thick and thins...as a true relationship is judged only if it passes through all the bad and good times perfectly ...and when they have questions or problems they should sit down and solve them on their own as its the matter of their life going to a third person is a complete no from my side as i believe if we still love each other and understand each other completely then there should no be a place which a third person holds...so i think i would like to say to all the married couples that

    "you were bonded to each other because you shared a special bond which god created for you..and if you wanna make it strong love your partner as madly as you can as life is too short and your fights makes it more shorter so enjoy your life together and always be there for your partner whenever he/she needs you because that is only true love..."

    lolls...

    i wrote too much i guess...!!!!!!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hey, I am just answering your question because you are my first contact. As I am not married yet I don’t know what your question really mean. But only thing I wish to say is, as per me Marriage is not just physical attraction but sacred bond between hearts. The couples need to share each and every thing. There should be no secrets hiding in them, as once you are caught the trust between the both is broken which cannot be repaired. This should start right from their first meet. To get married you should fully know about your partner. You should share all your likes and dislikes. Thus you can live happily ever after throughout your life.

  • Bill
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    August 25th will be my 38th anniversary. My wife and I have shared everything since before we wed. We have faced every trial and tribulation together. The experience has been rewarded many times off. I am sixty and can honestly say the only regret on my life I have is not meeting my wife earlier and being with her earlier. Your question is wrong and I am sorry that apparently, quoting "The Last Crusade", "You chose poorly".

    Bill

  • .
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I actually AM happily married. No lie. We discuss our problems, and yes there will always be problems, we dont wait for them to burst. Thats what is wrong with alot of married couples. They take off at the first sign of trouble instead of workin it out. I mean what do they think, its all roses ?? ITS WORK! Like anything else.

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  • SHIVA
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    I always say '''i am happily married'''...and this is true.

    we both have problems but they are mainly... about finance....about children ...about relatives...about health ....etc....but we dont have any emotianal problem ...there is lots of love passion and commitment so there is no need to share and i know nobody is interested in happy loving couple.

    i always asked problem and try to discuss about marriage but they are not my problems ...they are general question so that if any body is going through can have his or her say....but response is always poor .

    Source(s): star for you
  • 5 years ago

    I lie a lot. that's an project-free thank you to get out of confusing situations, avert hurting peoples thoughts, makes our own lives seem extra exciting and it merely usually makes existence much less complicated. think of of all the complication we would get if we've been honest all the time. on the different hand, I do attempt to inform the reality as much as attainable. you won't be able to tell one lie without telling yet another and yet another .....

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Who knows?!!!

    Mebbe the ppl who do say tht r really happy after all.

    or they jst dun wanna put their partner down.

    or they jst feel ashamed of admiting it.

    But to b frank, if i was married n if i am nt happy... i wldnt b saying it out loud coz no one is bothered/takes charge of our life xcept for ourselves.

    i wld rather find a solution for it. n try to manage d marriage as much as i can coz thts wht commitment n wantin to gt married is all abt.i wldnt gv up so soon.

    but if things goes worse, it wld b the end.

    Source(s): ~i dun like marriage. But I like to lead a decent single life as hw i am now~
  • 1 decade ago

    If they lie, they may be themselves in denial about what is happening and can't accept the reality. Their expectations were disappointed in this, but can't accept reality and keep going on like this, instead of trying to find a solution to their problem.

  • 1 decade ago

    Happiness is not lack of problems

    How well you understand each others problem and support ONE ANOTHER

    Yes really its prestigeous to say “I am happily married”.

  • 1 decade ago

    After a few years of Marriage many couples ask , 'where is our love gone?'

    It is burnt in ABUSE of sex, selfishness & lack of respect

    3inch long tongue can kill a man of 6 feet tall

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