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My boyfriend has been pressuring me for sex, i dont want it but he does, what should i do?

I just got with him at like 1am this morning, (its about 9:30pm now) and we have known each other for almost 7 years now, we have both liked each other and finally found out the other liked us. I broke up with my other boyfriend for him, but he knows I'm not a virgin (he is a virgin) and well he was trying to pressure me into sex, so he could experience it. I kept telling him i didn't want to because when i was with my previous boyfriend the night before, we went at it for quite awhile and i was having stomach pains today, he continued pressuring me for it, and then when i had to leave, i asked him if he wanted me to come back over, he said no, i was thinking to myself wow now he is mad because i wouldn't **** him. i need advice on what to do about how he wont stop trying to get me to **** him. I wanted our relationship to skip those small steps, cus tis is only the first day and i already wanted to make out with him, he just wanted me to go all out, also he kept trying to get me to take off my shirt, i kept stoping him, but he wouldnt give up, so im glad i left when i did. another thing is im best friends with his older sister, shes going to be a freshman, im going into 8th with my bf

Need advice on how to get him to stop!

Please Help Me!!!

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Slap the **** out of him and tell him that he needs to respect your wishes and if not you do not need to be with his stupid ***.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    unload the fool now. additionally tell him that u dont like your **** pushed in. And if he needs to dig in the **** pit consistent with risk he could come across a skanky gay guy or a woman thats effortless adequate. there is not something incorrect with anal, in basic terms some ppl like it others dont. in case your bf is threatening u and pressuring u to do issues u dont choose for to do then he isn't a good guy to be with. What does he advise he will destroy u? What can he easily do? Youve in basic terms time-honored this guy for a month...u could b having intercourse besides..dont u have like a minimum of a 2 or 3 month rule? C if he's rather fascinated or merely there for one element.

  • 1 decade ago

    if you aint ready for sex with him then dont do it simple. At the end of the day with sex it has to be a two way thing but one of you wil regret it otherwise, dont let a lad pressure you into anything but it will only makes things ten times worse. Girl wait until you ready not when he says so, dont be a lap dog.

  • 1 decade ago

    Eighth grade is a little early to be having sex. There is the danger of sexually transmitted diseases (especially HIV) and unwanted pregnancies. Are you ready for that? If not, I would suggest that you keep your self esteem and self respect by just saying "no" when asked to have sex. Tell him you want your sexual experiences to be meaningful in a committed relationship and school classmates do not have that degree of commitment or maturity.

    Good luck.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You gotta let him know that you are not ready for sex and if that's a problem for him, don't give in.Just tell him the door is right there and if you wanna go then left him go.NOBODY AND I MEAN NOBODY CAN FORCE YOU TO LOSE UR VIRGINITY WHEN YOU ARE NOT READY!!Don't let him be the one.

    I hope i help

    Good luck

    bye

  • 1 decade ago

    Seriously, this guy sounds like a dirt bag. You need a man that respects your feelings. I mean on the first day? Come on. All signs point to dumb this fool and find a guy that is right for you!

  • Tia
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    So you had sex with your boyfriend last night, broke up with him then today got with someone else?? Slow down!

    And the way you get this guy to stop pressuring you is to DUMP him! Don't ever stay with someone who doesn't respect you.

  • 1 decade ago

    tell this worm that sex is not a good sign for relationships. Premature sex will only lead you to a bad relatioship later on in life. Teen pregancy is not the place you want to be...it is really hard.

  • Cassie
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    if u dont want to do it then just tell him, if he has a problem with him then he doesnt really care about u at all. he probably just thinks that ur easy since ur already not a virgin, set him straight and if he cares about u at all he will understand and back off.

  • 1 decade ago

    He's waited 7 years, whats another year?

    In all seriousness, it sounds like you're gonna sleep with him eventually so make him wait to put the ball in your court.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    he is a dumba** 8th grader whos balls prolly just dropped, dude i cant believe you arent a virgin at 13 years old, but atleast you wanted to hold off this time

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