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What to do.........?
To me since i've been with my boyfriend for about one whole day in like 2 hours (it is lik 11pm), we got pretty far today, and since i have known him for about 7 years now, we have already made out. (i know first day and already making out, but we have known each other for years, so we have a strong bond) I want to know what i can do to push our relationship further, im going over to hiss house 2marro at like 8am (early i know, but his mom leaves for work early) we pretty much have alot of alone time together, except for when his sister or brother barge in, theydont do that often, they leave us alone alot, he was already trying to talk me into s** but i was like "i need time, i did it too much the night before" (i did it 4 times the day before, with my ex and it was too much so i've been having stomach pains) anyways i told him if im feeling better 2marro maybe, do u think i should give him what he wants i want it too, (only thing is my record for one day is 8 times in one day, another thing is im not a virgin, he is a virgin) o mean i really do want to bt im not sure if i should (dont worry i buy condoms, have 2 left right now, plus his older brothe gives them to him, so no need to worry about protection) another thing is im used to having s** pretty often, hes never done it and im not sure if i should let him yet, another thing is i have only done it with 1 guy before, so im not a whore/ hoe
Also weare going into 8th grade, im ttally fine with the whole s** thing but i just think hes not ready, he tried pushing me into it bu i put my foot down and wus like "No!" he got upset but i tol him if he cared e wouldnt try to be so pushy, so he was a little upset for the rest of the night but i was cool with that, to me it was kind of funny to watch his attepmts to get at me, dont worry there were other people home, so he wouldnt be able to force me into it, plus he weighs about 145lbs at like 5'6 and im like 125lbs at 5'4 and to be honest he is a lot stronger ten me, but he wont even lay a finger on me, he i a very caring guy, i admit if it came down to pure strenght i would probly lose, alos the funny thing is im older then him by a few monthes but im kinda worried cus he was pretty horny and it kind of worries me, he can get pretty violent, but not towards me dont orry he wont hurt me, als when he isas turned on and horny as he was, he kept pulling me on top of him, i didnt mind its just that it kind o frightened me cus he could force me because of hormons and all he has to use is brute strenght/force im worried about tomarro when i c him next, i not sure how he is going to act, so i might play it safe and hang with his older sis, me n her are best friends
let me know, i need to know what other peopl would do
also i dont want to break up ithhim, i truely care about him
(ps going into 8th grade)
3 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
at 13 the thought of sex shouldn't even enter your mind. Don't do it. I think that at 13, you are not emotionally ready to have sex, or financially able to handle consequences of sex (i.e. a pregnancy). Anytime you have sex, you run the risk of pregnancy, regardless of what you use. I think that until someone is ready to deal with all of that, only then should they have sex.
STD's (sexually transmitted diseases) are getting more and more serious these days, especially HIV . the percentage goes up every day of people dying from this disease, and you also have to worry about teen pregnancy, are you ready for a child is your significant other ready, are you ready to give up your life as a teenager, do you have the funds to support it? if not could you put yourself through the mental stress of abortion , do you think abortion is the right choice for you, or adoption could you live with yourself knowing that you have given up your flesh and blood? there are a lot of other questions you need to ask yourself and have certain answers on before you have sex, and make sure that your body's feelings aren't taking over your mind's feelings. There are extensive studies showing that teenagers brains are underdeveloped with regards the ability to make decisions with regard risk, which is why all insurance premiums are boosted on under 25s and why sex with a teen is called statutory rape, as under 16 is legally considered too young to make an informed decision.
Source(s): Y!A - ?Lv 45 years ago
Well nice be Catholic, move to church each and every Sunday and different days of duty, pray by way of the Saints (asking them, such a lot righteous, to wish for you), pray the Rosary (considering at the Gospel and asking God's favourite production Mary to wish for you), confess your sins to a clergyman, and ask him for extra solutions on your query, he WILL aid.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
you are going into 8th grade and have had sex how many times? this is just ridiculous...you never should have had sex with anyone...sex should never come before marriage...this is just wrong, never have sex before marriage....to have it before marriage is something many people tend to regret, even if they don't its still wrong and should never happen outside of marriage