Why does my boyfriend lack in giving me affection and sex?

My guy is the same way, he is 30 and I am 22. I can get a kiss out of him if I am lucky and even at that it's like kissing my grandpa. Sex is maybe twice a week and is pretty standard and boring if I could have it my way it would be everyday and multiple times. I know that he i snot cheating either. I think it just might have to do with their age just talk to him about it so he knows what you think and feel.

Does he seem down...is he no longer interested in things he used to long to do....I'm thinking he could be depressed...the best thing that you could do about this situation is talk to your man...and he doesn't want to talk then you should take steps in getting outside help (psychologist or some other doctor)...the problem could be physical or emotional (I don't know the full story behind you guys so....)

Good Luck!

I'm guessing he might be overweight. Sorry to sound crass, but there are people that are overweight and don't have the gear on drive. OR i might be wrong and he needs more of an excitement to have sex. Role-playing might help. He might be into kinky stuff.

That may be the issue. I am 24 and my boyfriend is quite a bit older that I (44) and he has some physical issues. Sometimes he gets that way

No I dont think it's physical problems. i think that's just how he is. he doesn't sound like a very affectionate person, and affection doesn't necessarily have anything to do with sex.

You should talk with him about your needs and find out what his needs are.Let him know that you miss the intimacy and ask him if something is bothering him. Over here everybody can only guess and that will not help you.

I think you have to talk to him about this! Did you try to spice things up, get a cute outfit or get your hair done...maybe bring in some stuff that he might enjoy. Cook dinner and have a nice candlelit meal togehter

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It seems he is taking you for granted. He probably knows you will always be there, my advice would be to communicate to him before you start to feel unwanted and begin to miss passion. If he understands your feelings, I'm sure he will be more affectionate to you.

Maybe he's just tired from work, or has a lot on his mind. Either way, you should talk to him about it. Maybe he doesn't think he's getting enough sex either, you never know.