What is the biggest relationship crumbler for you...

Infidelity of any kind - sexual is the obvious, but there are many other additional kinds of commitments or understandings that can be broken or violated. Nobody wants lies.

And BTW Milton, I have my own red swingline stapler... did you know Grand & Toy sells them now :D

Totally agree - dishonesty crumbles most relationships. Dishonesty covers a wide range of behaviors from outright lies to infidelity, insincerity & broken promises etc. If you can't trust someone, you lose respect for them. That applies to any relationship - romantic, friendship, family, business etc. Once the respect is gone, the basis for the relationship is gone.

People who smokes. That's the biggest turn off in the world. Also when people can't keep there promises. It's lame.

Me getting began. i've got been married earlier. So i think of i've got merely given up. humorous i could choose for to and that i'm a good lookin intestine with a good character. merely end lookin or i'm too picky. So i assume Getting began is the stumbling block. and that i'm an extrovert. pass discern.

people that just dont know how to have fun and never joke around or laugh and are just sad and emo and negative all the time.and when they never want to hang out and also if they never try to keep in contact with you even if you try to stay in touch with them, for example if you never called them just to see if they would call you first, you still wouldnt hear from them ever again or for a long time because they never think to pick up the phone. it yanks my chain!!

broken promises are always a killer for me too, but I also can't stand dishonesty. I'm always honest, my friends know that too so I prefer them to be the same too.

Broken promises because lies and cheating fall under that category.

Milton, for me the deal breaker is lies. If a person has to fabricate stories and/or lie then when and how do you know how to learn when they are being honest.

People who betray my trust... meaning spreading rumors, keeping things from me that they KNOW i should be informed of, or if they raise a hand to me. I hold grudges and can never let them go.

Dishonesty would be one, as well as prejudice or racism. I am generally able to forgive most things, because I know that I need to be forgiven too sometimes.