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hes trying to cheat.

my fiance and i have been living together for 4 years we have a 7 month old baby together and yesterday i was using his email to email a resume and he was right there and i clicked on sent folder to see if it sent and there was 5 emails responding to women on craigslist looking for "adult friends" one said you look amazing i will definetly be your sex slave email me back and we can meet .they all had to do with meeting for sex idk what to do he said they never met and he dont want to be with noone else but i just wasnt having sex with him,(b/c 24/hours a day 7 days a week i take care of our daughter clean cook mailing bills all that type of stuff and he doesnt do anything except sit on the comp so im exhausted) and he promises this was a one time thing but ive caught him trying to cheat on internet so many time b4 but it was like a year and half ago so it sounds like hes gone back to old ways ? idk what to do

Update:

and i dont have no family or no where to go so idk what to do

Update 2:

mrs jamar you will understand after you do nothing for 7 months but do everything that needs to be done he cant even cook one time change one diaper 24/7 i do everything its exhausting and its not like we dont never have sex he wants it like 4 times a day i have more important things to worry about

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  • 1 decade ago
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    ummm just b/c your being a housewife and a mother does not mean u have to cut your hubby off from sex...now if he's a bum then diff story but if i were a man and i were married and i couldnt get none from my wife i would probably cheat to!

    Source(s): married 11 months, 7wks preg with baby #1
  • 1 decade ago

    I was always one of those I would kick his butt out people until I was actually in the situation. I had just had our first baby and a month after my husband had actually cheated on me. He admitted it..I was crushed. Alot of it was attention. Other girls were saying how great he was and he needed attention he was lacking due to my "chores" and taking care of our baby. I think you should sit down and talk. Maybe compromise and say one night a week will be our night. I know one night is not alot but it is a start. If you can get a sitter, even for a dinner and a movie, it would be healthy for both of you to take a break!!! Romance will come back. I still have my days where I think back and wonder if it was all worth it, but all in all talk to each other. Good luck hun!

  • Paul
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I think you need to ask him to leave, to sort out his head and see if he wants to take seriously the role of being a father and husband. He's turning it into a joke now, and you can't permit that in your child's life. I'm guessing he is young, having trouble dealing with the responsibilities of being a man, a leader and a father, but he has a child and needs to learn pretty quickly. Take care.

  • 1 decade ago

    What a effin douche bag!!! men are scum!!!

    im soo sorry for that poor baby that has been born into this crap im sure hes a player, you have to talk to him like an adult and try to get something to change!!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    wow. i looked in my husbands sent folder in his email and found he had sent an email to some chick on craigslist too! it said "can you send me some pics, i like your add". we were having problems, but i was pregnant and we are married! maybe you need to get rid of the internet for awhile.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Kick his lying, cheating azz OUT.

    And be sure you get child support. Why would you ever consider hanging on to a useless guy like him? You can do much better!

  • KSR
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    You can keep making excuses and stay and deal or you can leave finally. If you marry him it is only going to get worst. You do better being by yourself. He is putting you at risk, you don't even know if he is using protection.

  • 1 decade ago

    well if you have no where to go, then turn a blind eye to it. what else can you do. Most (not all) but most men cheat one way or another ... just deal with it. But if he is trying, than he probably already has cheated ... good luck

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    stay with him until you secure a good job and then leave him. why would you want to stay with someone who lies and disrespects you? he went so far as to send pics of himself to other women.....i mean....HELLO!! don't do that to yourself, staying with someone who doesn't think the world of you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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