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kay i got a crush on this senior. she is actually my friend. but she isn't talking from a week. i don't know the reason , i haven't really done anything wrong.

we got a process that each guy is under a senior and i was under her throughout the year. all of sudden she stops talking to me. considers me as an enemy well she said so. gives this strange look that " who is this guy ?" i asked for a help recently and she is like whom i to you. recently i was one of my friend and she came into the room and she was like why are you sitting with my enemy and whole conversation she was referring me as the third person . I simply can't stand it , just walked out of the room. My friends asked her what's the reason , her reply was i was over-acting it seems...


I like her a lot few months before. i dunno it was crush or attraction or love or just i spent a lot of time with her so everything i imagined was her. she was like miss perfect to me...


my friends say just ignore her she is just going to be there for few weeks that's it...


Tomorrow i'm gonna meet her according to our college academics and i can't avoid...i'm confused should i be agreesive or be kind to her just ignore or avoid face to face confrontation

New World Man ∞ Temet Nosce · Accepted Answer

It sounds like you've probably invested this girl with more than she was worth ("miss perfect"). 

Perhaps you made a mistake in your conversations with her and made her uncomfortable. Do you remember trying to sway her opinion of you to match your image of her as a perfect person? If anything you said or did was motivated by a desire to have her match your feelings, she may be reacting to that behavior.

If so, she is clearly unable to respond to her discomfort in a mature manner, and so she is giving you "the silent treatment," "the brush off," or "the cold shoulder." Don't try to push her into returning to "the way things used to be" between you. Just let her be herself. For your part, focus on being yourself and doing what is important in your life. Study, take time out for leisure activities with other friends or alone, and keep a positive outlook. If you continue to obsess about this girl, you'll drive yourself crazy and end up depressed.

destiny · Answer

My dear young man....

Well....maybe you're putting a little toooooo MUCH effort into the whole "thing", honey...To be honest, I would just be yourself when you meet her tomorrow ! Be nice, not agressive by any means, don't be "putting on an act", just be : YOU !!! I am sure, you're a nice guy & things will work out just fine for you ! And if she is still behaving in such a manner, then...make an "alternative" move...and just ignore her. Either she will approach you (if she cares for you) -or- you just ..."move-on" and find you "another" young lady. There are many more nice ladies out there for you !!!

Wish you all the best for the future ! Greetings from Germany with lots of love & care... Annette***

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