Lesbian looking for a Lesbian...?

I'm going to use my 'word of the day again'

Stereotype

I can't say that I know any lesbians that aren't pretty

Well, you obviously haven't met me and my girlfriend ;)

I think you're just focusing on butch lesbians who aren't described or thought of as pretty - and you aren't branching out and thinking that the pretty girl walking next to you on the street could be gay. Get outside of that lesbian butch box and realize that ANYONE can be gay.

I the road to finding your life partner is difficult for everyone. I mean, sure, people find them sooner in life and then some later so the time is different, but the road is the same in my opinion. One day, out of the blue, someone will come up and you'll feel it. You'll know. You can never be sure of when.

I met my girlfriend (I can't stand the word partner) through my former roommate who actually had a crush on her first. She had long brown hair, brown eyes, tanned skin, great arms and a butt on her. It was everything I was looking for physically and when I looked into her eyes it was everything I was looking for emotionally. I had a girlfriend at the time who I wasn't so into and about two weeks later I went after the girl I knew I should be with. It's been a year now and my decision was the best one of my life so far!

Good luck on your search. Patience is key.

Because that's what they like to wear? It can be as simple as that. But from a psychological/biological stance lesbians sometimes have more masculanized brains or something like that. I really have no clue. That would be interesting to research. But this question is so stereotypical; plenty of straight girls dress like that too. But I know what you mean. And there are plenty of feminine lesbians who dress very girly-girl. But maybe you have good gaydar? Some people can just tell a lot of the time when someone is gay, just by being around them. It sound judgmental but its just like, a sense. Lol

We meet by having mutual friends .

NO it is not that hard to find a person that is ok looking and has a great personality .

my partner and I have been together for 5 years and we have a 3 year old daughter together not to mention she has the best personality of anyone I ever met. You will find her or maybe she will find you.

hmm...i'm trying really hard not to take offense to that "all the lesbians i've met aren't that pretty" comment. How stereotypical is that?! Not to toot my own horn or anything, but i'm a very attractive lesbian, and so is my girlfriend. And I know A LOT of good looking ones here!!! And we met at a gay club...she was doing drag and i thought she was the sexiest thing i had ever seen...and now she's all mine! Try looking in a gay bar....they're great

Wow, you sound a little superficial, eh? I mean, if you demand a woman be a pretty lesbian with a nice personality...you are already tagging yourself as shallow enough to be passed over by most pretty lesbians with a nice personality, unless you mean a pretty lesbian with a nice personality who does not mind you are a shallow cat......which is making yourself a pretty small field to plow in, eh?

I tell you what - why don't you do things you like to do, show off your own outstanding personality and your own astonishing prettiness and just see who comes by to talk? I am sure someday one of them will meet your standards and possibly also be interested in you as well.

what lesbians have you been looking at? i know many who are gorgeous.

but ill tell you the same thing i told another woman/girl who is having the same problem.

just keep your options open. if you have high standards, lower them a bit.im not saying completely but a bit.try going for someone who isnt really someone you go for. like go for the person who is in the background(the quiet person you sometimes dont notice at first) as she is more likely to have a an interest in you but yet is too shy or afraid youd turn her down.

after all, its the risk taken, that makes a difference between finding love, and not finding it.

I'm not a lesbian, but I used to share a house with a lovely looking lesbian lady. We lived in Manchester (UK) and there certainly seemed to be plenty of lovely lesbians up there. I live in Brighton now and there is certainly no lack of them here either.

well u really need to look hardr, i met the girl im with now at my job at the most frantic time, we met couple days b4 x mas in the jewlery dept and she was trying to hit on me and get my info as am im trying to help customers, weve been together for 8 months now. im not sure if shes my life partner but shes my partner

I haven't yet. I'm still looking as well. It seems really hard to find and meet one.

I didn't mean that because I think they aren't good looking. I actually prefer a butch and I've seen several really hot ones. I just mean that where I live and the places I go haven't actually led me to anyone and I don't know where to find one.