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my best friend said goodbye to me?
my best friend send a message and told me goodbye as if she is breaking our friendship i dont know why. we chat 1-2x a wk tru cellphones & meet 1x a month for a little time if im not busy with my work... im sure she do understand that, but it really bothers me & it really breaks my heart coz i really treasure her as a friend. i tried to contact her but she doesnt reply on my messages either on phone or emails. what did i do? tnx :)
i continually send her messages & email, but she doesnt reply.... as if nothing is wrong, i tried to understand her side. i even come to her house whenever she invited me, but there last month i missed her invitation, but i called her that i couldnt come coz of my work & will come nxt time to her home. i tried to invite her to meet me this day, but she never came :(
i guess she got mad at me when me & my boyfriend had celebrated our anniversary & didnt invited her to go out with us. well, she was with us when we celebrated our 1st anniv. maybe that was the reason why she got mad at me.. i tried to explain to her that i cant invite her for a personal reason of coarse it my date... this is sooo sad for a nothing reason :(
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I WOULDNT WORRY ABOUT IT. YOU HAVE BEEN THE BIGGER PERSON ABOUT THE SITUATION I WOULD GO ON ABOUT MY BUSINESS BECAUSE BELIEVE HAVING A REAL FRIEND IS HARD TO COME BY AND SHE WOULD SOON REALIZE IT SO YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING TO WORRY ABOUT. BUT WHAT I CAN SAY IS DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME ASKING WHY BECAUSE YOU WOULD MISS OUT ON A LOT PLEASE BELIEVE SHES NOT A BIT THINKING ABOUT YOU BUT WHEN SHE DO SHELL REALIZE SHE JUST LOST A GOOD FRIEND. THE ONLY PERSON THAT CAN ANSWER THE REASONING BEHIND HER IGNORANCE I HER AND YOU NO SHES IMMATURE BECUASE IT TAKES A LOT TO BE A WOMAN ABOUT YOU S*** BUT DONT WORRY IT WILL ALL IRON OUT.
- 1 decade ago
Sometimes people act out to get attention. Have you been ignoring her lately? Have you canceled when you were supposed to do buddy things together? Is it possible that she could be feeling neglected? There are a lot of questions that you could ask yourself to find the reason for her sudden coldness. But I think you should give her space and time to deal with whatever it is she is dealing with or going through. In time if she feels as deeply about your friendship as you do she will contact you. Friends may come a dime of dozen but a GOOD friend is hard to find. If you feel like the friendship is worth it then wait for her to contact you. If she is truly your friend she will be back. If not then you'll find someone who is worthy of your friendship.
- Mike PLv 61 decade ago
Sometimes people get tired of other people. Makes no sense but folks are funny that way. I had a friend and she wished me a happy birthday and then never responded to my emails or calls. Wierd. She has MS so maybe she's uptight about that but i really don't know why didn't respond.
What I always do is send the person love and say to myself if you don't want to be around me then that is ok. God bless.
Then move on.
- 1 decade ago
Well the only person who can answer your question is here. Not sure why you would ask a bunch of total strangers....
If she's not replying to you then there isn't much you can do. Give her some time and try again in a month.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Im sorry. Was there something you were doing or a bad habit she didnt want to be around possibly? If not she might just have problems that are effecting her life in many aspects. Approach it like, If their is a problem and that you are there to help.
- 1 decade ago
You may want to call her parents and see if she is ok. Has anything tramatic happened in her life lately?? Other than that if it is misunderstanding just let her know that you will always be there for her and you want to work on the friendship.
- I love DaiseyLv 51 decade ago
Who knows what you did? I'm sorry your friend left you without an explanation. People are weird.
- 1 decade ago
meet her and ask why is she breaking your friendship without any reason ???
breaking a relationship without any reason is strange, isn't it ?
- Leigh(:Lv 51 decade ago
friends come and go, you just have to find a new bestie. i know its really hard but you can do it!