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i had this relation (you know what) with my office maid for period 1 to 2 months.

i fear that she may blackmail me in the future.

she was in need for money and i had used her many times.

now i am doing my MBA and cannot concentrate on my studies because of this and i fear she may blackmail or threaten me in the future and further i pay her when i use her.

i know it is best i should leave her.

but how with out any humiliation as i am working in a good organisation in a senior most position and getting her to know that i am leaving her.

she is about 35+ and i am 23 years old.

please do help me.

let me know

Adios.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    How can she blackmail you?

    If it gets out even she will be humiliated, and if she is married then she she will get into big trouble with her husband and the society.

    So she wont blackmail you as she has more to lose that you.

    And she has no proof you can just say she is trying to extort you for money.

  • 1 decade ago

    Go on with your life. So what if she black mails you? Innocent until proven guilty. You just have to work on defending yourself. It won't matter since you're successful, a lot of scandals and gossips would follow you. Prove them all wrong (even if they are true) and be convincing about it. After all, you have to play dirty sometimes to get what you want. Also, she used you - your money to be exact. So you're equal.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    There's an old saying about making your own bed and laying in it.

    You've crossed the uncrossable line and may have to pay the price.

  • 1 decade ago

    does she have any proof [like pics or videos]..if so then talk to her and get the proof for an amount...

    she can't do anything if she doesn't have any proof to show your relation wit her

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  • 1 decade ago

    first was she married.....? if so she won't blackmail you..... here mistake carries equal responsibility....... if she wasn't married then also she won't blackmail you......... this mistake can't be done by single... and he/she wont carry responsibility for it...... don't think of future and spoil your present and lastly dont repeat any mistake

  • 1 decade ago

    cross the bridge when it comes.

  • 1 decade ago

    dheere se door ho ja.

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