Should i tell him he was my first?

honestly is the most important thing in a relationship. If you think that this guy is someone that you could potentially spend the rest of your life with than I would def. tell him. I don't think it would scare him off. He might even think it is kind of sexy and flatter him. who knows. but i think you should tell him. if it does scare him off than you're probably too good for him anyway. kudos to you for keeping your virginity so long until you found the right one!

there is no reason to tell him if you are a virgin or not when he had made love with you. he had probably knew when he tried it. and it's not about having experienced or not, it's about being satisfied of what you had done to him. if he is ok about the sex he had with you, then there is no problem. don't overthink that experienced ladies are more proud than the virgin ones. in fact, you're guy must be proud of you and himself being the first one in your life. you may tell him about it if you are already married. the most important thing to focus is your relationship with him now if it will last long and probably to get marry with him in the future.

You should tell him, at the right time. And be sure to mention that you lost your virginity to him since you felt that he was more important than the other guys you dated. Also, even though you act more experienced, chances are that he could tell you were inexperienced.

What are you going to gain by telling him now ?...and what is he going to gain by being told this ? ...Why take a chance on ruining a relationship just because " making yourself feel better " is the real reason you want to tell him.... Telling him is a no-win thing for him and you that you could regret after its too late.

Yes, dear, you should have told him, so tell him now.

By the way, if you don't feel comfortable telling him you were a virgin, how can you know him well enough to be having sex with him?

If you intend on continuing a relationship with this fella, you better be, trying to be something you are not is just no gotta work out in the long term

i think you should tell him.

relationship will never last without complete and utter honesty

i think if he loves you, he will feel privilaged and you should become more special to him just cause he is your first and it will show him that you loved him enough to go all the way with him.....

really i know it is a big deal but trust me it will turn out fine.

of course you should tell him! and if hes this kind of guy that gets "scared" over it then he isn't the one for you! and that's cool that you stayed a virgin till 24. he might feel special :)

it is best to be honest from the beginning but to be honest with you I could have written this question verbatim and I was lucky enough to have someone who appreciated the fact that I had waited for "mister right" If he loves you as much as you love him he will understand, but don't let him go on thinking you slept around before, and he is just another one of you conquests, That could backfire

you should have told him from the start. by you saving yourself for him, he should appreciate the fact that he was special enough to your for him to take your virginity. if i was your boyfriend, i would want you to tell me that i was your first. who knows, maybe it was his first time too...