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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

why dont girls take relationship seriously? girls help?

why dont girls take relationship seriously? i mean like for boys when they break up with a girl boys do everything it takes to get her back and cant get over them but for girls they broke up and they will be like watever. why dont they take it as serious as boys do?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    they do man but we bonce back

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    We do take relationships probably more seriously then guys. If you break up with a girl and she seems like whatever on the inside she is probably really crushed. We just don't like showing it because we dont like getting hurt. For most guys they just like girls physically but most girls usually fall in love.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Wow, someone's just a little bitter. That's a very, very broad generalization which I can completely discount right now by telling you that neither I nor any of my close friends are even remotely like that. The slutty girls are always the loudest and always get the most attention. Start really looking for someone different, and you'll find out people like that actually do exist.

  • 1 decade ago

    We do take it seriously if we actually care about the guy we were in the relationship with. We just cover it up, pretend it doesn't bother us, and try to go on. Most of the time all we want is for you to beg for us back no matter how long it takes.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Women take relationships just as seriously as men, but when a girl breaks up with a guy, it's because he wasn't worth her time.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think it depends on the girl. I think they do feel the same but for most trying to get a guy back makes them feel weak, vulnerable and even pathetic. Girls are always told that guys don't like clingy girls. So when you break up with it, we are upset, but we just try not to show it to the guy.

    But that's just my opinion, like if i guy hurts me, i rather them think i don't care then show them that i do, and that i was hurt. I think girl's are just afraid that they care more about you then you do them. So if they show you they cared their just making themselves vulnerable, and that can be hard and scary.

    Good luck with all this!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    GUYS and GIRLS are the SAME!!!

    yet everyone is different!!!...they can be like WATEVER or DO EVERYTHING IT TAKES TO GET THEM BACK...it applies to both guys and girls....XD haha

    SOme guys don't take relationships seriously and some do...

    same goes for girls.......

    so yeah...there you go =] haha everyone is different yet the same..O.o got it? hope so XD haha!!

  • 1 decade ago

    We do take it seriously during the relationship, and we don't show our hurting feelings in public, we just hide our tears for later, and cry as hard as we can when we're at home by ourselves, and crying ourselves to sleep.

  • 1 decade ago

    some girls can bounce back;

    if my boyfren was to breakup with me id do everything on the earth to get him to come back ; i love him with everything && i have always taken all my relationships seriously... good luck 2 u in future !!!!

  • Carrie
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    maybe the girl was not in love in the first place in the relationship

  • 7 years ago

    Because they're not supposed to. They're supposed to avoid their guys to make their guys get very obsessed and stalk them.

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