I NEED My Dream To Be Interpreted? Please...?

Your dream is about you not feeling heard.

Odd, but you never say you find him attractive or that you think he is beautiful. Just that you are angry and reacting to their saying he is ugly. You say how the love is more important than his looks. But there is something else there. What do you really feel about his looks? Do you think that you have to scream to others that love is more important because underneath it all you really do not believe he is physically attractive? If so, what will happen in the long run with this relationship?

Your family sounds very spiteful. In truth beauty really is in the eyes of the beholder. People putting down your choie of a man are tryign to defeat you and control you. They are not loving and supporting you. And if you two have kids together your children will be subjected to those cruel comment and the family will try to divide them as well... telling them some are ugly like their dad and some are beautiful like you. Your anger is righteous and you need to express it. If you find him to be a lovely person then their comments are divisive. Rather than screaming it at them you need to set boundaries.

They are not respecting you and they are certainly not respenting him. It is time for you to be heard. Just open up the conversation at a positive time, not when they can brush you off as being "angry or over-emotional."

At some point if you do have kids together and they are dogging out your man to the kids faces or where they can overhear it, then the kids are going to have bad self esteem issues. I mean if half of who they are as a person is viewed with disgust and contempt by those who are supposed to accept them unconditionally, their own family! they will feel inferior and unloved. Don't let that happen.

People sream when they are afraid, startled, terrified, not being heard, being deliberately antagonized or being negated as valuable. Stand up for yourself now. Open your mouth, set boundaries, and tell your family to stop being hateful.

You say people other than your family have said it, but not that your cousins actually have. This means that you can unconsciously detect that they think so, even though they are too chicken to say so. Because they are too chicken to say it, which they probably pass off as politeness or good manners, you have no way of responding to it so it became a buried, unresolved issue that popped up in your dream.

You vent lot of frustration in your dream toward your family ; but I am wondering deep down if you are not starting to question yourself about your relation

Then he sanctified jesse and his sons, after which he called them to the sacrifice. and it came about that, as they came in and he caught sight of E.liab, he at once said: surely his anointed one is before jehovah.but Jehovah said to samuel: Do not look at his appearance and at the height of his stature, for I have rejected him. for not the way man sees is the way God sees because mere man sees what appears to the eyes but as for jehovah, he sees whatthe Heart is. 1samuel 16:5-7

Well it sounds like you're possibly irritated with what they have said about you two. You're just letting your feelings out in your dream because of what you're feeling from what they have said.

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