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HELP! Who should I chose?

I will try to keep this short and simple.

Well I like 3 boys and I don't know who to chose!♥

Can you help me?

The firs boy is:

Jose, His locker is next to mine, so i see him a lot and we are friends and I like him for who he is but he has NO! clue that i like him.

We have 2nd period together and he asked me if he could sit with me!

But only because he did not like the other girl he sat with, because she would ask him for the answers.

The second boy is:

Benjamin, When i first say him it was like we were the only two people in the room. And i do think he is REALLY cute! He is also in my 2nd period class but i feel like dose not even notice me! But in the hall when i least expect it i suddenly see him walking by me! But in 2nd period i usually see him talking to a other girl. Is he doing this to try to get me or dose he like her?

And the third boy is:

Christian, He was my elementary crush, and he liked me! But we were not dating because we were young. We did have each others phone number so that when we were older we could date. He is going to a different middle school than me and I hear that he likes another girl in his school but this is a rumor so I do not know if it is true of not!

What would you do? Who would you choose? PLEASE HELP!!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    hm...there's this guy I know in my 2nd period class named Christian. I think he might like me...but I don't know...it's weird. anyways!! You're the one asking me, so:

    #1 - It seems like it might get awkward at your lockers if he doesn't like you back. But then again, you guys are really cool together, so you guys might just be like aw, whatever and let it go. He has no clue that you like him but does he like you? If he knew everyone else in the class and had no other reason to sit next to you, I'd say that that's really sweet and he liked you back. But he did have a reason.

    #2 - Sounds like he's the typical "prince charming". He's really cute, doesn't notice you, but all of a sudden, he's right there. Not to be a spirit crusher, but maybe it's just a coincidence that he's right there next to you, but I do know what you mean! I kind of liked somebody who did that to me while I was waiting for my mom and doing other stuff. And all of a sudden I hear him laughing with his friend right beside me. He acted like that again a month ago, now that we're in high school this year, but that's it. Benjamin sounds like he's interested in other girls.

    #3 - Christiannn. You haven't heard from him at all? If you don't even know whether a simple rumor is true about him, then how much do you really know? Or at least how much do you know now. People move on and keep changing. But it is really special if even after that, people can keep loving each other.

    So find out. Call Christian and even though you guys haven't talked in 1+ year, ask him to hang out. For example, just say, "Hey Christian! It's ____, remember me? Yaaa, so what's up. [talk a bit or if it's awkward and he doesn't say much go on to] So I was wondering if you wanted to ____?" If you guys did that in elementary, it'd be very easy. But even if you didn't, don't sweat it. Right now (I'm in 9th grade), I hang out outside of school with friends that I only [for some, there's an exception of once or twice] saw at school in junior high.

    About Jose, just keep talking and keep being friends. See where life takes ya. If you get any more hits, go for it or post another question ;]

    And as for Benjamin, I think I'd wait until you at least get as far as where you are with Jose. Maybe you'll be in the same group for a project, or will switch seats. You never know. And then, see where life takes ya. Or take yourself.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    1

  • 1 decade ago

    1

  • 1 decade ago

    number 3

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Think about it.

    Who can you see yourself dating?

    Do you really want to /date/ them at all? There is a BIG difference between crushing on a guy, and wanting to date him.

    Which do you have the strongest feelings for?

    If they all moved away, who would you miss the most?

    In what way would you miss them?

    It isn't for us to decide; we aren't dating them.

    They all sound nice, though the first and third sound like the best choices.

    For the second- just because he walks by you in the hall, doesn't mean he likes you.

  • Hi
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Number 1. Number 2 is just useless to take risks on guessing if he likes her or not. Since you can communicate with #1 easily, he can be the person to choose. Also, not to be offensive but do you really want to take risks on someone you never seen for a long time? How do you know how much he changed? (3)

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Not the 2nd 1

    The 1st one seems like a typical love just got to talk to him rmoe and try your best xD

    The 3rd one is like tied with the 2nd one except your going to have to suffer the fact that you he's going to a different middle school with other girls

  • 1 decade ago

    Bachelor numba 3

  • kelm
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    Up till final wintry climate i might % wintry climate every time. something appropriate to the checklist volume of snow that i had to shovel, push, plow or snow-blow removed from homes, roofs, sidewalks and driveways delivered a down area to wintry climate. i'll flow with wintry climate after a pause for concept as my prominent game (Ice Hockey) would be unable to truly be performed without wintry climate, precise?

  • 1 decade ago

    Hmm, either 1 or 3.

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