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gstar asked in Pregnancy & ParentingPregnancy · 1 decade ago

has anyone lost twins?

We lost our baby girls today and are devastated. I was 20 weeks and 4 days. They had developed Twin twin transfusion syndrome. Please can any one offer advice, and pray for our daughters Lily and Rose.

Update:

Twin twin transfusion is when one twin will prosper because they'll receive blood and the other will weaken.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    First off, I'm tremendously sorry for your loss. I myself have never lost a child (I've never been pregnant; I'm only seventeen.) but just recently my Aunt lost a baby (for the fourth time. She has had many miscarraiges, but this one child was born healthy and died due to unknown causes.)

    Your marraige/relationship will grow closer, and you'll notice a bond you may not have had before with one another.

    Remember that the Bible states that infants go to Heaven when they die due to the fact that they're not yet at the age of consent, where they know the difference between right and wrong. And if you don't believe in God, then maybe you believe in a better place for your daughters?

    Did you know that the Bible also says that the infants in Heaven sing in a choir for the Lord? I know that you're precious daughters are in God's arms, singing to Him.

    They're happy, and they're safe.

    You'll be in my prayers.

  • 1 decade ago

    I lost my baby 4 years ago at 24 weeks - I had to give birth to him naturally after being induced. At my 20 week scan they detected that he had a severe case of spina bifida and other abnormalities, although it was the hardest decision for me to make it was the right thing to do.

    I was so depressed afterwards. Legally I had to bury him, and apply for a birth and death certificate. It was a very trying time - but I had much support and still do. I do not have any children yet but I am hoping one day I will and I am sure that you will too.

    I will include you all in my prayers.

    Best of luck xox

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I'm sorry for your loss. I lost twins in July of last year, I was only 9 weeks. I'll pray for you and your baby girls. Take care hun

  • Ohhh... I pray for your little Lily and Rose, just know that their adorable little faces are watching your every move from heaven, saying, "yeah, that's right. My mom's the best mom ever."

    It's not your fault. And think of it this way.

    You can grieve the loss of your twins forever OR you can grieve your twins, then you can get another blessing and have a beautiful baby.

    Lily and Rose are in my prayers. :)

    Source(s): My mom had a miscarriage before me, but she had me and if she hadn't of had me she would have had all boys, no girls. :p
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you are the same exactly as what i was when i was given no choice but to terminate my twins.....

    it is very hard to cope with but the only advice i can give is dont shut yorself away from everyone, it is so hard to have people around and to hear sympathies but i found the best way was to try and get out and still do things....

    not saying move on, just try to stay on top of things....

    the best thing i ever did was make a scrapbooked album with everything in it, and in it i wrote a letter to both my little ones individually and put it in there with photos ultrasounds, things i wanted for them, i wrote down my fears now they werent here and my wishes and hopes what dreams i had etc....

    it was hard t do but helped me so much

    i will pray for you and light a candle for yor little girls, knowing that they are smiling down from heaven watching over you

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    So sorry to hear that, we lost our twin boys, I know it's hard at first but time does heal honest we will pray for you all God Bless

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Im so sorry, what is twin twin transfusion syndrome? Anyways my condolences to your family although im not really going to pray because they never actually existed but im sorry and atleast you are ok.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Omg! Im so sorry for the loss of your two Angel babies!

    lily and Rose, gone but never forgotten!

    Ill pray for thee!

    x.x.x.x.x.x.x.x.x..x.xx.x.x.x.x.x.x.x.x.x.x.

  • I AM SOO SORRY 4 YUR LOSS.. II HAVEN'T LOST TWINS BUT II HAVE LOST 2 ABBYS AT 2 DIFFERENT TIMES.. II NO IT IS HARD & II WILL PRAY 4 YUR 2 LITTLE GIRLS... II AM REALLY SORRY!! BETTER LUK NEX TIME :) STAY POSITIVE FOR THEN..X

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i will pray for them each night and im soryr to hear your loss... and my mom had a misscariage with twins and so did my sister... but im sorry to hear what happened =/

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