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There's this guy that I have recently struck up a sort of friendship with. We ride the same bus to go to? ?
our jobs. He told me that he lost his girlfriend two years ago and that he is living with his deceased girlfriend's mom because she is struggling to pay the rent and he is helping out by being there. I have never heard of anyone doing this and I thought that this is kinda weird but hey, he was going to marry the girl. Anyways,I do know that he is still grieving because he works six days a week by choice just to try to deal with her death. I told him that it is possible to meet someone again but he just shook his head. I know that he's not ready yet but he did say that he wants to take me somewhere that I really want to go. So my question is this: should I hang in there hoping for something more because i am becoming more and more attracted to him or just move on with my life and write this off as a lost cause because of his choice of living arrangements and continual grief?
Please give honest answers! Thanks!
2 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade ago
That is a really tough question.
Because you don't want to get caught up in his grieving.. and it would hard if you ever did have a relationship with him because he still lives with his girlfriends mother..
Although... it has been two years.. and maybe you can start to make him see that he CAN move on and that there is other people out there that he can love as much as he loved her.
