Does age matter as much if the woman is older than the guy by a significant number of years?

We get along great. There is alot in common aside from the 16 yr age difference. Even our political views!! LOL...Its been quite obvious that he's "in" to me (as I have been told). He's 26 and has said most women he meets in his age group are still a bit immature and want to party all the time. I don't look my age, most guess early 30's. I feel as though i'm 10yrs younger also.

So.......I am 43 and have been a widow for 5yrs. The guys in my age group I have met/dated are still into head games. One guy (42) "wasn't sure where his heart is and not sure if it was with me". He went back to the one that cheated on him and wiped their bank account clean.

Another(46) TOLD me he was divorced, he wasn', and after a month dating me they decided to get back together. Then had the audacity to show up with his wife at the bar we were supoosed to go to that night to see a band! He emailed the next day to tell me how "hot" I looked and he wanted to buy me a drink so bad!!

Another (41) was an extremely boring high school psychics teacher.He went on and on about his "kids" and psychics.

My list goes on and on.........

Does age matter?