HOW TO GET OVER IT ?? ((10PTS 4 BEST ANSWER ))?

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okay , im a 19 old gurl whose supposed 2 be living her best days now but actually my life is turning to the worest one ever , the last 10 months was the most terrible 10 months in my life , first the building we were livin in was falling so we had to move on in 3 days n u wont imagine how messy it was , we came 2 live with my grandma till we prepare our new home n get it suitable 4 humans 2 live in , while stayin here (im still livin in my grandma's place) i got engaged n i felt like god is givin me somthing 2 help me after being so depressed 4 leaving our home , i felt like i can breathe again n live a normal life cuz i got someone beside me now who will be there 4 me when i need him , i mean .. if u found someone who luvs u n u luv him , he will b ur support when u r down , he will make u smile when u cry , does this really happen or im just imagining ?! also in those days i lost friends in my college who was so mean n bad n i felt like i wont need anything cuz i've got this person beside me , 4 months later my grandma died n thats the big problem , she was my best friend ever , n im not gonna talk abt her cuz if i did i wont stop , what really hurt is that when they told me that she was dead i went to the room n i when i saw her didnt believe it n i kept standin beside her n tellin her wake up cuz this is not a good time 4 wat u r doin .. it was my first time ever to see someone dead (im that kinda person who cry while seeing someone hurt) n till 2day i still cant believe that shz dead , then i found out that this person who was supposed to be my support was the most horrible liar on earth cuz he had 3 girlfriends plus me n also was addicted to porn so i dumped him ..

i feel like i've no one else to cry on his shoulder .. my mom is totally down , my dad is busy n my 2 brother's also r busy , i lost my friends , my grandma & my fiance .. i dont regret losing my fiance cuz hiz a jerk n dznt deserve crying for him n also my friends i dont regret losing them cuz i believe that u can make friends everyday .. but wat i really regret is losing my grandma n losing my life , i just dont know how to get over it .. how to get this old me back , sometimes when i say i will wake up go 2 my college n try to be normal again it gets worest .. i feel fine for 2-3 days n then feel so down for 2-3 weaks .. im one of those ones who thinks that no one will help me till i help myself first but i really cant do it , i tried alot but it never work , its like a constant pain , i thought about everything that might help me in positive n negative ways but found nothing eventually .. wanna get over everything bad happened 2 me n caused pain but there r somthings that i cant get over like my grandma's death , i know i wont get over it but i wanna get over my miserable life cuz i cant live like this forever.. how would i ?? thnx 4 ur care ..

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

i to was in ur postion when i was 16 years old..i remember when i moved to nyc and lost all my friends and family...i was living in a box had no where to go or anyone to talk to any one..my parents or my sister was the last person i can come to because they never would understand me ( i was born in a different country) .but i i was young and things change.. now im 19 and i focus most of my time on school trying to get a better education so can make a future for myself..everyday i make new friends cuz i try to make the best of what i have...your only 19..i dont want intrude on ur life but i think its to young to get married..set up a future..get a good career...i know u are hurt my grandmother died when i moved here she was back home...i never got a chance to say goodbye...dont let go of ur feeling you have for your grandmother..but take them and try to make urself stronger...things get worse before it gets better...u have plenty of time..u can always get new friends i did =) and u will always find a guy out there that will love u..hang in there wish u all the best

Uhhuh · Answer

There is no way to solve your situation in a sentence or two on Yahoo Answers. You really need to talk to a counselor or someone (psychologist, psychiatrist or someone like that).

There must be a counselor at your school who you could start with. It is that person's JOB to help people like you, so don't be shy. Maybe they will refer you to someone else as well.

It sounds like you need to talk through a lot of issues. You need to do this.

In addition, depression can have physical causes which can be treated. This is very common. In my own case I had pituitary gland problems that threw my hormones out of whack and made me depressed a lot. Now that the problem was identified and treated, I feel a lot better. Certainly not happy all the time, but better!!

Good luck. And I'm serious. Talk to someone who is trained to help people with their problems! Okay? :)

☀ · Answer

if you try to get over it, you will. but if you don't really do anything about it, your only gonna fall futher down. im really sorry about your grandma. and everything. It is true you can make friends anytime, anywhere. but some friends are special. Best friends. :) try to look at the good stuff. maybe take a day to just relax, slow down. sleep in the sun light, or sleep in. Terrible things happen, but you can get through it with God, and your family.

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