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Jealously could ruin this?

Hey,

I am in my first real, serious, adult relationship. It has been 7 months now - i know that isn't a huge amount of time, but it feels long to me.

This is my first real boyfriend, i have done my firsts with him.

He has had about 4 other serious girlfriends, so im not the first. I just get this - not so much jealous - but insecure? feeling.

I feel this could be a successful relationship, we are even talking about a future totogetherI just wish i was his first love.

Many say you never get over your first love, o maybe he just settled for me?

I dodon'tnow. I think this is just me. He sosometimesays little things bout his ex - like we used to so this after sex or my ex did this. I dodon'think its meant to be hurtful, but i feel like crying sosometimesr i become moody. Its very childish i know. I just wish that i was his first eeeverything

He does all these cute, romantic things - but what if he juJustid these top each girl? It wowouldn'take me feel special.

I dodon'tnow maybe i dodon'teserve to be in this relationship? If i cant handle it, should i bother? I dodon'tant it to end, i just hate knowing that he has loved another girl like he loves me now, how can he put a year rerelationshipehind him?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    .Sorry you should'nt be jealous of his previous escapades. By the same token he should'nt be discussing or comparing you with his previous gf.That's very shallow and immature.

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