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a guy asked me to homecoming and a just want to be friends?

how do i make sure he knows that without being mean cuz i think he likes becuz he wrote me this poem "Heartbeat- It is gone when im lonely, a small thought and it starts slowly! Though I have friends and family who stay true, my heart beats fast when i think of you!"

(1 of 6 actually but he is always quoting poems to people)

well please help me ive talked to my friends and my mom and im not sure what to do

Update:

i dont know what to do cuz he put alot of work into it he found out all my classes(and i didnt even find it weird that he kept wanting to make sure he knew my schedule) and he sent cards with poems to each of my classes

heres another: In our heads we always ask what happened really, free your mind from weight and let it flow freely

(i dont know maybe im reading into it too much but i told him i was stressed from school and just needed a break)

and this one i told him i was a night person: moonlight-a white sphere up there, a bright light in cool air, a loud screech and a howl

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Don't let him take advantage of you. He's just chasing you and I think that you're feeling a little bad because you don't feel the same way about him. You should just tell him straight up and don't try to lead him on. By going to homecoming with him you will tell him that you don't mind all this stuff but if you don't I'm pretty sure he'll get the picture eventually. I hope some of this helps =]

    Oh, and btw. I hope you know that all guys do hate the feeling of liking a girl for a long time and having to force themself to stop liking her eventually. By telling him now (although he may not want to hear it) it will help him in the long run because he won't have to be hurt and waste his time if there is obviously nothing between you two.

  • 1 decade ago

    i think u should go with him because all u do is go to dinner take a couple of pictures and then when you get to the dance you don't only dance with ur date. u might dance with him a little bit more than the other guys but u still have a chance to dance with other guys. this may not happen at ur school but this happens in Albany, Ga

  • 1 decade ago

    don't go to homecoming as a date yet because you wouldn't thave this problem if you had to ask about it. when you start a bf you don'tneed to think about it youwill know he is the right one for you. hang with him and see how it goes if heis everything yuo wanted then go for it.

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