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my sister is prego?! helpp!!!?
my sister is 13 and she just found out that shes pregnant with her bfs baby and they have been dating a month.im trying to be supportive but my parents don't want anything to do with her. i cant believe what she did and now she wants an abortion and im against it. what should i do??
17 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Support her in WHATEVER she wants to do. Make sure she speaks to a school nurse or counsellor, or go with her to the doctor so she has someone she trusts when she talks about her options. She's only a baby herself, she needs your love and that of your parents if she's going to get through this.
How old is her boyfriend? If he is much older, he should be reported for statutory rape.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Wow, that's a bad situation. I personally feel that she made the decision to do what she did, and she should deal with the consequences. Something like getting pregnant shouldn't have a "quick fix." If she's adult enough to be in this situation, then she should be adult enough to handle what has happened..even if she's 13. Now I'm not saying that she should raise the child, because that would be ridiculous. She's a child. However, adoption is always an option. It's sad that people who want kids can't have them, and then young girls get pregnant and have abortions. And if she's 13, how will she have money for an abortion? Talk to your parents about the situation, and see what they have to say. Even though they want nothing to do with her now, she's still only 13, and they're still responsible for her. Talk to them about letting her have the baby, and then putting he/she up for adoption. I personally feel that if she's that young and feels that she can just get rid of the baby and solve her problem, that she will never learn how to deal with anything. There are consequences to your actions. Good luck with everything. I hope it works out!
- happybidz2003Lv 61 decade ago
Sorry, it isn't up to you, it is up to her. It is sad that she is pregnant at 13, babies having babies, I just hope that your parents come around and help her. I myself am against abortion, there are many loving couples out there that would give a baby every chance at a good life. I wish you all the very best and good luck. I will pray for her and hope she makes the decision that is best for her.
- 1 decade ago
As your sister is so young she may die giving birth to the baby, I think you should consider abortion. I believe that people should also consider adoption, but as I said, your sister is too young to be going through a pregnancy. Good luck and keep me posted.
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- 1 decade ago
be very supportive always be there for her.try and convince her to not abort it if she doesn't want the child there's people that would gladly take it after being born.but either way she will end up doing what her mind is indicating her to do and what she believes is the right thing to do at the moment but shes going to regret it later on in life if she does something stupid
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Be supportive as you can!!
Make sure your sister knows that this is a very serious decision ending a baby's life isnt a decision that should be made so fast. This could haunt her her entire life... there are options like adoption?
- 1 decade ago
Support her decision, she's your sister, I'm against abortion as well, but my 17 yr. old cousin is pregnant and if that's what she wanted i'd support her.
- ErikaLv 45 years ago
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
she can do what she wants concerning the baby. If she does not have an abortion, then her life will be ruined and the baby's life will be ruined.
- 1 decade ago
that's sad. learn from her mistakes.
her parents should have taught her sex education.
i am against abortion but you can only try to convince her to change her mind, in the end she will do what she wants.
good luck