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how do i let them know without causing too much conflict?

i live on my college campus with 2 girls who are supposed to be my best friends. the thing is theyve kinda havent been the nicest too me since the beginning of the year and im not really sure why. i may have an opportunity to move out of the apartment and into a better living situation..and if i get the opportunity im going to take it...how would i go about telling them without breaking ties completely?

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
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    i would give them a notice (30 days) to let them know you will be leaving. if they are already acting rude to you as if they are teaming up on you, then i would just tell them that you are moving out. what difference does it make if they are not nice anyhow? then once you move to the new place maybe invite them over for dinner and a movie and see how they react. You are in college, you will have friends come and go, don't worry, you can never have enough friends! Good Luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    It's up to you to decide, but by you moving out and getting yourself into a better situation, it might be the best move yet. Living with people isn't easy, and as the saying goes...."you don't really know someone until you've lived with them". When I had a roommate, I couldn't STAND it....I loved my friends but I prefer to live alone, after I moved out, it took about a month or so and then we started hanging out again. Sometimes absence really does make the heart grow fonder.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    throw the bum out, or, at least let them know you are p'd off. Only way as I have been the offender in your case. My friend put up two of us for supposedly 2 weeks and we took advantage of him. He had to yell at us to get the message straight

  • 1 decade ago

    well just go for it. i mean if they were ur friends trhey would understand right. I know my friends would they wouldnt ask y they would be alright with it. ask them y they have been mean to u and let them know how u feel don thold back and itll be fine ok

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  • 1 decade ago

    you have a new job and you have to move closer to work.

    that should resolve the problem you described. that way

    you moving out is in no way related to them.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just move out, if they don't want to speak to because you refused to put up with their crap--I say good riddance.

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