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How can I get clear him from my mind?

my ex boyfriend is EVERYWHERE. We work together, and hes in 2 of my classes. its hard not to think of some you dont want to see any longer and forget about them, when you can't have a moment not to see their face. what should i do, to get over the fact, ill always bee seeing him this year?

Update:

i dont like him. i actually dislike him more everytime i see him.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    1st possibility get a new guy (at least try to start liking another guy, so you don't look at him), or something like that, like play comp (wouldn't recommend, you can get addicted, like me)

    2nd possibility think bad about him

  • 1 decade ago

    then keep seeing him, and when you find a new boy make it a point to never see him besides the unavoidable (your classes and work) and when you do, just act cheery becuz your new man and try and find thing in him that make you happy that hes not that guy your staring at everyday. Eventually youll se the other guy as more of just a friend, maybe youll even talk to him more and make jokes about the old days knowin how his personality is, but all in all, you honestly just move on, there is some guy out there eventually that is gonna be your husband, the one you marry, isnt that all youre looking for, if this boy wasnt it then wtf is the problem? be happy that you got out sooner than later and got time to search for the perfect one rather than only date 1 person and then end up marrying, thats what america and non abstinence is about...freedom of choice in love and lust, and to be honest a mere one night stand w/ no strings attached isnt THAT rare anymore, so dont feel bad if you hook up on a fling as a rebound, just make your body and your mind happy, and forever happy will be your soul, forget the rest.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Honestly, the EXACT same thing is happening to me right now. Except I still have some feelings for him. But when I hooked up with someone recently, it made me realize how right we were to break up, and this new guy just made me so happy. So I definately think you should meet someone new, its the best way that helped me!

  • 1 decade ago

    try to find someone else to take the place of him. if i like or dislike a girl and cant stop thinking of them, which is dumb sometimes but hey we're human, we can't control our thoughts so easily. Just think about other stuff, as soon as it happens. and you go back to thinking about him then thnk about other stuff again, keep doing that and gradually you willg et over it, and then when you meet someone new, you will think about them and not have to think about this Ex of yours.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Bacardi 151

    A wedge of lime

    a dash of salt

    Salud and say goodbye!

    Fyah in dah hole

  • 1 decade ago

    that is imposible several times!

    but if you really want to forget him it`s gonna be easy!

    cheers!

    and meet new people you`ll find better ones.

  • 1 decade ago

    Think about how much of an asshole he is every time you see him!

  • 1 decade ago

    find something to do to take your mind off of him.. like find another guy to talk to or something

  • 1 decade ago

    Date someone new !!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    just dont like him anymore..

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