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Im not sure if my ex is jealous or if he really wants to get back with me? Or if he is just crazy ?

My ex refuses to be friends with me and but he is the one constantly initiating contact with me. Last time he made me feel so bad about myself i blocked him on IM. Two weeks later, he texted me and asked me why i haven't been online and i told him that i have been away. As always, he asked me if i met anybody. I then felt bad and i deblocked him, and he again starts talking to me. And again bugging me about how i should go out and meet guys. I dumped him a while ago and he first told me that he thought that the fight would really bring us closer together; then he claimed that he was over me, yet he still bugs me. Furthermore, he told me that he was a great catch and i was an idiot to give him up. What does this all mean. I dont want to be mean, but how do i get him to leave me alone.?

Im really not into him, but i think he thinks that we were meant to be-- so scary!

Update:

he keeps on telling me to go out with guys, asking me if i met anyone and to get a boyfriend. What does that even mean?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    maybe he still has feelings for you.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He sounds controlling! He is taking advantage of you feeling bad for him- he said he doesnt want to be friends, and since you dont want to date him, then just ignore him so he knows youre being serious!

    It may make you feel bad, but it sounds like hes using you, so stop giving him chances to! If hes harrassing you at school and doesnt stop, talk to a councelor.

  • 1 decade ago

    Block him on IM like no tomorrow, ignore him!! You're not even that into him!! He told you that you were an idiot for dumping him?! No, you're a genius!

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  • sweety
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    It looks like your ex is confused, he wants you and doesn't want others to have you even though you guys broke up. FORGET HIM! Don't talk to him anymore. He sounds immature. An ex is an "x" for a reason.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    block him and stop talking to him? the more you talk to him gives him hope. Just tell him you've met a guy and moved on easy.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just block him forever and change your phone number.

    In my opinion you're dating weird man.

    Don't give him opportunity to have conversation with you if you don't like him.

  • 1 decade ago

    sounds like a bit of a nut, i would stick with someone who would treat you better :D

    answer mine?

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