Something is not right with me...how do I over come this feeling of being incomplete?

Things happen for a reason, even though we don't want it to happen.

Just think there are more important things in life and you can achieve and do much more, and make more friends, don't let it get you down

its happened to all of us at some point, it just takes a while to get over it.

Don't worry, be happy.

You only live once, i think...

Dont be so hard on urself. We enter the world on our own & we exit it the same way. Live, Laugh, Love... & move on. Some friends will come & go, some friends will stick around, some friends will last forever. It's life. Enter each chapter in ur life with open arms. Plus, it helps telling ur friends how u been feeling. Maybe u can have a little get together or something. But don't sulk! You and only you can ruin ur own attitude (despite whatever may come ur way to justify it, ultimately u decide)

Well the cure to this would have to be try to make new friends don't let them affect you negativly. Just keep going your true friends wouldn't ditch you or treat you like that if they loved you. Me i've been alone for along and enjoyed but when i met my fiance i changed and i love her company. At times being alone did get to me and brought me to cut myself but she helped me stop. I guess what I'm trying to say is try to get back out there and make some new ones don't fall so alobne and go numb till you don't feel no mmore that hurts.Good luck in colledge.I'm going for a nurse with in the next year.

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i'm so sorry this is happening to you. i'm going through the same thing right now, actually. i feel totally incomplete bc of my friends. you just should see if you could get any closer with your friend before you leave for college. if you can't she's not worth it. if you don't feel like you still want to be friends with this person, you're not missing out on anything. make new friends at college, and have fun :]

Be your own friend...learn a new solo skill like playing the guitar or take up a new hobby like photography, sports, weight training, something you can really improve with. Alone doesnt mean you have to be lonely, in fact I prefer being alone and never look for confirmation from others, I exist therefore I am and ....you do too.

Occupy your time with other activities so that it doesn't have time to be on your mind. Like joining some clubs or sports in school or doing some volunteer work. It will make you feel good knowing that you did something good for someone else.

This feeling will come and go in your life. This is a time for you to develop your strengths by yourself. You will use these skills later in life. You will be surrounded by friends later. You can not hurry thru this time..

You will make new friends in college. As for your current friends, try planning hangouts with them and if they don't want to or are too aloof, then move on.

hang out with them more often. plan a fun day 4 just u guys and go out and rent movies and buy a bunch of food and hang at ur house.

Ignore it because it is a false notion that doesn't mean anything. You find yourself in what you do. Concentrate on the future and building a life for yourself.