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Women do you feel that it is okay to tell the cops on your boyfriend!(read details)?

Be honest, because I fully understand that their are many women who would tell the cops all of their mans business, and answer any questions the cops ask them and will feel that they have done nothing wrong. Whereas where I come from that would be considered wrong and would be looked at as total betrayal and even immoral.

I personally could never get into a serious relationship with any woman who would tell the cops my business, the women in my family, and the women who I associate with on any real level all understand that the police are not to be given any real information about the men in their lives, or about anyone for that matter

Now of course under pressure and facing jail time it is hard to tell who would really snitch (man or woman) and who wouldnt but that is another topic.

Im fully aware that your opinion on this topic fully depends on your mindset and how you were raised people have their different lifestyles and opinions and views on life........so how do you feel

Update:

Edit: why are people getting thumbs downs..there are no wrong or right answers...this is simply a question of true opinions...and I appreciate the honesty (even from the snitches)..lol

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    personally, I would never tell the cops any of my mans personal business because as you said I see that as betrayal but that is just how I feel and how I was raised

    Edit: All im saying is that if I already knew what he was doing, why would I now decide to turn snitch when the police roll around just because im under a little pressure, that just seems so fake to me

  • 5 years ago

    No, because if I already knew what he was doing,and accepted or supported him anyway, why would I now decide to turn snitch when the police come around just because im under a little pressure or inconvenience, that just seems so fake to me,I just think If I was going to snitch it make more sense for me to not get in a relationship with someone doing illegal activity,if im a snitch. EDIT: I think what Rock chick said was fake because it does no depend,if you are going to tell you are going to tell because the cops will put serious pressure on you and your heart would have to be in keeping your mouth shut where im from snitches get stitches then their left to die in ditches

  • 1 decade ago

    It depends on what it is.

    If my man was smoking some weed when he got home, which is illegal but mostly harmless, then no, I wouldn't even THINK about snitching on him.

    But if I found chopped up human remains in my man's basement, then yes, I would run to the police faster than a speeding bullet!

  • Amber
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    If he did something wrong, why would I protect him? Just live a good life and you have nothing to fear from me. besides, I could never get involved with someone who would break the law, then ask me to lie to save his skin at the risk of my own.

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  • 1 decade ago

    i would not be dating or married to a guy who the cops were coming around and asking questions about all the time

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It just depends on what it is. Pretty much, no. Especially not out of spite, if it wasn't worth telling before.

  • Anne
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I think that she'd be doing him a favor to report him to the cops, if he's getting into illegal activity.

  • 1 decade ago

    if there is a reward offered, hell yeah i'm telling! i'd take that money and get me a man who doesn't need to commit crimes

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