What... Just happend?

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Alright, so last night my girlfriend and I were talking on the phone and all the sudden out of literally nowhere I tell her about all my personal problems and every single thing that I have wrong with me, and she does the same. 

Then, again out of nowhere I asked her she wanted to break up? I feel like I really like her but I felt like she didn't feel the same way about me. So, she started getting emotional and I felt like a total douche and what the hell can I do to make it up to her, I think I really hurt her feeling and now she's not sure about what I'm thinking and it's a huge mess and pretty much I would like someone else to fix it for me.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

you ARE a douche. wtf who breaks up right after spilling all their personal problems. talk to her again, explain how boys pms all the time and get her something, like flowers and a card. tell her how you feel. if you really like the girl dont let her go just like that

Anonymous · Answer

you just need to talk to her and ask if she really likes you or not.  Make sure she knows how you feel about her.  Try to make her understand that you don't want to break up.  Tell her that you got the vibe that something was bothering her and ask her if there is anything wrong.  You guys just need to talk it out, preferably in person.  I think you guys will be just fine.  Good luck!  Hope this helped.

Skittles:) · Answer

Well, if you ask me, I think you should tell her that you don't know what came over you, and that your still crazy about her, and that you only asked her if she wanted to break up, because you let her inside, (know your personal life) and you were afraid that she wouldn't like you for that. If she still feels the same she should take you back no worries. I really hope all of this goes well. It takes a man to tell a girl wahts really going on in his hread. i know it's not what guys really do all the time. :o)

laura d · Answer

Actions speak louder then words!

Do bring her flowers, even if they are picked from a garden. Bring her favorite candy or food. Make her dinner and rub her feet while you tell her how much you do care.

A card, a text to say you care and miss her. A long kiss and hug just to hold her. Quit talking, your mouth got you into trouble, learn to listen more, slow down and start showing her.

Anonymous · Answer

Send some flowers with a nice note saying you wish to forget the other nite and the phone call. This will work like magic, unless you really do want to split with her, in which case just do nothing.

jimmy12know · Answer

If you really like her then you need to seriously apologize for your insenstive question. We all like to feel "safe" in our relationships and you just stepped on her security.

If you really doubt your feelings for her, then tell her in the most compassionate way possible, but don't let her EMOTIONS keep you from your true feelings. Betrayal is far worst than denial when it comes to emotions.

Lizzard · Answer

Just tell her you felt insecure for a moment and was worried she may not like you, based on the things you told her. Reinforce that you really like her and just made a mistake the way people do.

Anonymous · Answer

Best thing to do for now is apologize to her and try to let her know you were not of sound mind.  Try working a few methods that will help her to understand your point of view

xMadxMoox · Answer

Sometimes it's really hard to actually say what you feel. So right a poem and if you want, give her a gift. Also say that you feel terrible about what you did.

Gooch · Answer

Dude I feel that same thing happened to me look just talk to her what i would do is buy her flowers and tell her she looks nice worked for me.

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