i think its my fault can u help and tell me if it is or not?

You should tell him to wipe your number and see how he feels about having it said to him again and again!

Say good bye. Tell him that you are not into him any more. Let it be a short message or call. Let him feel what you are going through. (if he actually cares he will.)

If he gets back and pleads, then think.

Think all that you want him to change or agree too. List is down and then call him to discuss and get a commitment from him that he will agree and abide by what you guys discussed. (be reasonable on what you want him to compromise on)

Now the million dollar question, how do you know if he will not do the same thing again. Ask him why he feels he will not get back to his usual self. You too think of what would be the consequences for both you and him if he does the same thing again. Are you willing to take the chance/ (looks like you are).

And all this cannot go on. So you decide if you want to give him one last chance or call it quits.

All the best.

It's like this, say I go to a restaurant and order the rib-eye steak and it's delicious. I return to this restaurant a few times, but realize I come here over and over again. So the next time I go out to eat, I choose a different restaurant and try their rib-eye steak. It's not as good. So I return to the first restaurant where I know it is good. This could go on for awhile. From what you described, he seems like he has a hard time making up his mind. He likes what he has, but continues to want something better. Then again, you also have to examine both him and yourself if your going to be able to make it work. A relationship is between two people, not one. Both people are going to have needs and wants, but you should discuss them before letting yourself or him get hurt.

YES U SHOULD, LISTEN TO UR HEART, UR HEART IS NEVER WRONG. NOW IF HE HAS HIT U THEN (FUGM) U KNOW!!!!!!1BUT GOD WHAT DO 21ST CENTURY PEOPLE THINK, LIVE IS NOT EASY LIVE IS A GAME BUT NOT WELL PLAYED BY OTHERS. T SEEMS LIKE IN THIS RELATIONSHIP COMMUNICATION IS LACKING. WHY? TALK TO HIM SPEAK ASK WHAT HE WANTS, TELL HIM WHAT U WANT. IT ONLY WORKS LIKE THAT. GO BACK TO THE 1800'S FOR EXAMPLE TRADERS U KNOW THEY WOULD TRADE COWS FOR HORSES OR WINE FOR FOOD. THAT HOW IT WORKS BUT HERE UR DECISION. TALK LISTEN TO WHAT HE CAN OFFER THEN GIVE HIM UR OFFER. SEE CAN U BOTH CAN DEAL WITH IT. REALLY IT MIGHT SOUND FUNNY BUT THINK BOUT IT. THATS HOW IT WORKS BUT WITHOUT COMMUNICATION U AINT GETTING NO WHERE. NOW LISTEN TO UR HEART WHEN ITS CALLING FOR HIM. DONT MIXED HEART AND MIND CAUSE THEY DONT GO TOGETHER. ONE LAST THING IF TALK AND EVERYTHING COME TO OK. THEN THAT MEANS U FORGAVE, THEN COMES TO PART TO FORGET. THAT WILL MAKE U BOT VERY HAPPY WITH A NEW BEGINNING. ITS LOVE , AND IF ITS MEANT IT WILL HAVE A HAPPLY EVER AFTER(OK THAT WAS CHEESY BUT CUTE) DONT STRESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Do what you want. Telling him you still care about him is fine BUT remember saying hes sorry for treating you badly doesn't mean he knows how or wants to treat you better...Actions...before you get back in a relationship you need action. Be treated with the respect you deserve and until then hes not worthy.

yeah, u need 2 be the strong one here. I know its hard & it sux but he`s using u. U need 2 be the one that rejects him. Let him c how it feels. You will do a lot better and look back & be glad. I know u miss him but theres plenty more out there.

dont text him at all and see what happens! the key is to make it seem like your not desperate for him. if he asks you why then make up an excuse and say you forgot.

how did he treat you badly? if he cheated then stay well away from him.

hes not worth ur time.

good luck

dump him ad move on

do what you want him to do. tell him how you really feel