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1for the girls,please help me,?
ok,i just broke it off with my girl of 3 years. i love her to death but im too old for her, well i think i am. she is 20 and im 40,she chased me down and we fell in love.im very upset about it. i want her to meet a younger bloke to be happy with,mind you she is happy with me il do anything for her.i brought her a new ford focus,pay all her bills etc,do you think i am doing her wrong by calling it quits? she still lives here i wont kick her out and if she finds a guy im not going to interfere.i just want her to be happy and be with people her own age,its hard because i love her so much.what do you think about the age gap? and the break up am i wrong ? please help. would you go out with a guy 20 years older than you?
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- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Your girlfriend is 20 years old, she has been with you since she was 17 years old. There is no reason to break up the relationship unless you both agree that it is not working. If the girl was underage say 16 years and under I would definitely not agree with them seeing someone who is more than say 4 years older than her. If your girlfriend is happy to be spending her time with you than that is ok. If she wants to spend time with friends that are her own age then that is ok also. Talk to her about it and find out how she feels about it all. It probably would do her good to find herself though and gain some independence to grow as a woman. She has been with you since she was a young woman and hasn't really had those life experiences to help her grow into a woman as you have always been there. Talk to her about it and if she is happy to leave things as they are for now leave it at that.
- 1 decade ago
i don't know about myself but if it works for you guys then go for it
my aunt and uncle were 21 years apart. and they were together till his
passing in march. If neither of you care about it then don't care about what other people would think. I say go for it
- Anonymous1 decade ago
age is just a number. Love is what matters! :)
