why does my husband prefer watching porn than being with me?

Porn is addictive, and since it is not real, then real sex may not measure up. It gives him unrealistic expectations! Here are several options...Tell him to stop and why you want him to do so. That you are considering divorce! Go see a marriage counselor and make him go. Tell him you are going to your family for help. Tell him you're going to his family for help! (Follow through with talking with your family, if the threat doesn't help.) Buy some toys & see if you can perk up his interest! Watch the porn with him and then ask for sex. If he still turns you down, then this should show him he has a problem.

Sorry, maybe some others on here can come up with something that might help you better!

I dont think he means to hurt you. Try to watch it with him when yall have the time. Let him know how you feel about it. Tell him that before he sits down and watches porn, to try being with you first. All that should help a "normal, healthy" man cut back on porn watching. I will say, cut back. Dont get mad if you see him watching porn sometimes. It happens. My husband does. Not so much since i did all these things, and also when i find out he did , i laugh in such a way, that embarrasses him about it now. I just tell him to wake me up, and sometimes, I tell him to let me sleep to go watch a porn. LOL! Compromise, and find a balance, thats all. Good luck!

Please dont take this the wrong way. Of course I dont know you so i dont know your situation. BUT, I can tell you what caused a lot of problems in my marriage. ME BITCHING!! Now granted, what he did, because I nagged constantly was aweful. Lying, cheating, lying cheating, watching porn, just not wanting to be with me. We decided to not give up and work on it. I asked him to stop doing this and that, and lying and cheating and stop playing video games so much. made a huge list. He asked me to stop bitching and whinning. Thats it. And i did, for the most part. so, now, he doesnt lie, he has no need to, he wont get in trouble. he doesnt cheat, he doesnt need that either, he doesnt watch porn unless its with me. Youd be surprised how a little less bitching can make a world of difference in your relationship. men dont understand half the stuff we complain about, they dont understand, they dont think that way. SO, if you think you might be complaining a little to much, my advice would be to stop any conversations youve been discussing, immediately. No more trying to make him understand how you feel about things, and just start all over from scratch, and see how that helps.

im sure your stunning but after a while in a relationship that's not the point! its the way you act with him, your attitude, my be you are too force full when coming on to him, cool it abit let him be the man in the bedroom dept: maybe you make him think his not man enough for you, ok its nice you want sex all the time and that you still fancy him but lets face it when in any situation in life if your to demanding it ruins the flow of things, as for the porn, he is being honest with you, he enjoys it, maybe if you were to have a night in watching it together while touching him this may get you two to another level, it could be fun try it!.

Your husband may have an addiction to porn. Oxycontin is a drug and you can get hooked on it.

There are several organizations that can help him. I'd start looking into one of these.

But frankly, porn is not more important than wife and child. Married men should not be looking at it with a willing wife in bed.

He is obviously bored or not finding u as attractive as he once did, considering his sexual habits have changed. i do not think that is normal at all and i wouldnt accept it. me and my man have eyes for each other only and thats the way it ideally should be. you need to have a serious talk to him, and tell him to prove he loves you and is committed to and has eyes only for you, that he stays off porn for a while so you can work on getting your intimacy and connection back. i would not recommend staying in this relationship if he does not listen when you tell him that he wil sacrifice you if he doesnt. its not worth your misery and if he is watching porn and not sleeping with you who is to say that he isnt cheating? he is obviously not in love with you if he is going to act that way. try spicing up your sex life a bit and if he still is uninterested then its time to move on my dear, or be unsatisfied forever.

Perhaps no stress or pressure to perform?

Are you bitchy or complaining alot?

He is learning new tips?

He has lost interest due to the baby?

He could just be young and horny - but if he is not doing it with you, then it may be someone else.

You may be beautiful, but sometimes men cheat even when they have a beauty at home.Looks are not everything.

Well, maybe he doesn't see it that way. Maybe he is addicted to porn like any addiction. But, definitely, he should have respect for you and not make it that obvious.Why hurt your feelings? Maybe he is a bit stupid. So, let him know how you feel and make it clear to him that women feel differently to porn than men. At least I think so.

i'm sure he'll stop. and you need to spice his bedroom events - up. sometimes men get the mother effect when a wife has a child. be sexy and show him your still hot and available.

Just put it on him .Why would you care if he watches porn if you work at Hooters.

That is the kind of question you would never ask if you take a drive to your boy friend's house.