move slow and keep it as it is?

Go with your heart...but if your heart isn't devoted then don't ruin his by leading him on because that hurts worse.Just be honest with yourself and him from the start.Both will be thankful however, it turns out in the end.As far as him waiting...may never happen if you don't give him reason to wait and college is available at any age or year,he may not be.A good relationship takes time and work,honesty and trust to work.

I don't know how anyone would be able to answer that without directly asking him or knowing him. Why not just ask him... or rather than ask if he'd wait, just talk about remaining in a non-committed relationship for now. If you're away at college, think about it. You will even likely find that you don't want to wait. I don't think you can assume he either will or won't wait. It's one of those things you just need to ride out and see how it goes. If it was meant to be, you will form a more serious relationship at some point. My guess is you will be to busy at college, both with school work and friends, to be thinking about whether someone will wait for you when you're out of college or home for the summer.

If you want a relationship you will make time, college wont take up every second of your life. Why would he wait? Never expect someone to wait, take the chance at a relationship, always better than never knowing.

not likely