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I want to...with my bf?

i want to have sex with my bf but my parents definitely wont let us how can i get over this feeling i know he is in high school and im in middle school but we love each other even though he is 3 years older than me and if we did have sex i need to know what to do cuz im a virgin

Update:

i know most of you are going to say im too young but I LOVE him and i need help with this or do you think im just PMSing it cuz i usally get fellings that i want to have sex before i get my period

Update 2:

i have gotten my period

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    you're WAY to young

    you will DEFINITELY regret it later

    give it some time

    you may be in love with him now, but love doesn't work the same way when you're younger as it does when you are a little older

    you will eventually learn what real love is and you'll be glad you waited

    you may be with the same person when you figure this out, and that would be wonderful, but you may not and you'll be even more happy that you waited

    wait at least until you're out of high school

    it will make your life a lot less complicated

    and you're right about the PMSing thing

    those kind of "feelings" do generally hit/become stronger right before your period hits, for pretty much everyone

  • 1 decade ago

    OMG, well as a STARS leader meaning( students today AR not ready for sex) i say that you will think its fun now and the day u do have sex but to be honest, you will go trough the most painful time of your life.

    there is a difference between love and sex, but real love comes first!!!!! then sex, you just want pleasure. its your hormones but u can control these hormones by just loving the guy dearly, meaning not thinking about sex. you will get your time and make sure its not today!!!!!

    i have a friend that loved a guy, and sure love is strong, but it does not mean u want to have sex. she became pregnant and the boyfriend left and never saw him again and she got stuck with the baby girl and she did not finish high school! oh she was only 14 years old!

    think about it before you do it, think about it as many time as you want! do you want a baby? do u want that life?

    but if you do have sex, for the love of god please use condoms!

    good luck!

    Source(s): STARS (STUDENTS TODAY ARE NOT READY FOR SEX), counselor, peer helper.
  • JS
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    You might think you are in love but you're not. Do you see yourself marrying this guy? Is he ready to start a family with you? Are you ready to start a family? Can you support yourself and a baby if need be? Protection doesn't always work. If you can honestly say yes to all of those questions then you are ready and you can look it up online.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hun, I understand that you love him, but yes, you are too young. I know you don't want to hear that, but do you honestly know if you are going to spend the rest of your life with him. I want you to know that there are ways to love without doing it. I love my boyfriend too, but we both made a promise to wait until after marriage. Nevertheless, this promise doesn't hinder our relationship at all. We still cuddle and hug and kiss and hold hands and talk and love each other. It's possible to have a perfectly healthy relationship without doing it.

    I hope that helps. Good luck!

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  • 1 decade ago

    hon when i guy is in high school all they want is sex they say to the people the love them so that i they can do is sleep with him but he might not love you at all ( not to be mean ) but just trying to get in ur pants. that is what many high schoolers are thinking i have two high school brother i know. if you loved ech other you two would wait.

  • 1 decade ago

    right, i am 13... i lost my virginity today. our parents would never had let us do that. but, well, it worked ot fine for me. just make sure you be really carefull i mean, im like one of the nerdy ones in school so, i was very very carefull. if you are guna do it, just be very carefull, use protection for definate! i am in love with my girlfriend too and ive been worrying about it allot but i was 100% sure we were ready. make sure u are ready, if ur not, then, well :S .... good luck

  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    a pretend boyfriend could desire to offer you fake presents. Imaginary presents do no longer sound as effective.....and being out on the fake streets sounds greater effective than being out on the imaginary streets. Imaginary streets make it appear like, "Poof!" .....you have basically disappeared :(

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if you havent even gotten your period yet, you not mature enough to understand a sexual relationship!

    and since he is so much older, than he is probably just using you.

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=200811...

    answer mine

  • Shay
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    You're too young, honey.

    You'll definately regret it later.

  • 1 decade ago

    Your a slut.

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