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aimee asked in HealthWomen's Health · 1 decade ago

What is wrong with me? Do I have some type of disorder?

My fiancee gets upset because I never want to have sex or or be touched down there. Every time I feel him getting close to touching me down there I freak out and my knees close shut. It is the strangest feeling and I don't even know how to describe it. I'm not concerned about what he thinks of me or how it looks down there or anything. The only way I can describe this feeling is that I freak out and it's almost like a panic attack and I feel trapped like being held against my will almost. Even if he just lightly touches me for a split second. Weird I know, please don't laugh and please do not give me stupid/smart alec comments. Thank you.

Update:

I'm not scared, or not ready. I have been having sex with this man for almost 3 years.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Don't let him force you to have sex, talk it through and do it when your ready.

  • 1 decade ago

    So you have a sexual relationship with him, but recently you've been freaking out when he touches you? Has anything stressful happened to you recently to make you act this way? Do you only get anxiety attacks when you're doing sex-related things, or does it happen in other situations as well?

    I think your best bet would be to talk to your doctor, or a psychiatrist, because they would do a better job of helping you through your anxiety attacks.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Did something happen in your past that maybe is just starting to surface now?

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe your just not ready, or your scared?

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