should i be bothered that my bf has feelings for someone else?

umm, you should not need us to answer your question because your gut is already screaming the answer to you.

DUH!

i just love how when they "they as in other party" do something stupid and you voice your concerns or dislikes... then your "insecure" Well Yeah i'm freaken insecure you twit your still caring a torch for your ex that you even still talk to. Yeah i say dumb him you got no time for this game and if ya do good luck in it but i'm sure there other guys that love to play some games with ya to. And not to be mean or harsh but in the end I really don't see you winning so i would run now. Good luck!

he seems like he is trying to get over her by being with you. The deeper in the relashionship with you, the more he forgets her. It would be different if he stopped talking to her. I'm not saying you doesn't mean anything to him, but I don't think he is real serious about you. Guys can say anything. Meaning it is the part they don't always do. I know it will be hard, because it's happened to me, but you need to brake up with him, because he can never be committed to you if another girl is on his mind.

I would definitely be bothered by that! He's cheating, emotionally. That's just as bad as cheating, physically. If it's causing problems between you, he should cut it out! You're worth it, I'm sure.

Lose him. It's not worth the effort putting time into a relationship like this. He doesn't deserve you. You'll find someone who wants to be with you and only you.

ok ive been in a similar situation...i was bothered...u need to tell him how u feel and if nothing changes...move on...it can be hard sometimes but u have to look out for you and your feelings....so jus try talking...it mite work out in the end...

You should know if he is worth ur time. Its only been too months so whaterver you decide to do make up ur mind quick before you get too attached.

i totally agree with you. thats a situation that has to be questioned. however, you have to learn how to trust eachother early in the game. talk about it! if anything, most men love it when there reminded of what they have infront of them. keep it simple.....cause it should be. hope this helps.

Tell him how you feel. Tell him that you dont feel comfortable when he flirts with other girls and shows feelings for them. If he continues then just dump him. He should treat you like your the world and treat you with respect. If he is not showing respect to you dont show it back. Guys are stupid because they like to flirt with every single girl but you are the girl and you need to train him not to. =)

GOOD LUCK

look tell him what you feel and dont let him tell you that you are insecure but if you do break up with him you will be unhappy for

I would be bothered. Talk to him about it. It's not fair on you to be second in the relationship.