I think the bf may be getting bored?

many things could be affecting a guys libido. it could be stress at school or at work. there could be an unresolved conflict between the both of you.

the problem with whats happening between you two is your starting a power struggle.

where the one who doesn't want sex is in power or gets to decided when it happens. that can create other problems such as resentment.

you need to talk to him about it, try to find out if the problem is with you or something else. it may also be a good idea to set a "date night" where you will do the deed..

He's right to an extent. But I still feel you two need to talk about things. Where things are going and how you are both feeling in the relationship etc etc. Also spice it up, go on dates to different places fun places that you haven't been before, if you have the money go on vacation together or do something adventurous in your area that you haven't ever tried but would like to. And there are other relaxing and intimate things you can do together like going to a spa or taking a yoga class and having him be your partner...I know it sounds corny but you would be surprised. Whatever fits to your relationship try it out.

How old are you?............it sounds like he is the one with the problem, maybe low sex drive, or problems or hang ups about his equipment and trying to blame it on other reasons. Talk with him and let him know that you need him not only to increase the frequency of it happening but for him to initiate it more often as well. tell him that you are open to try new things, but that yall have to communicate. If things do not get better after that, then move on, because something is not right there. Good luck!

It is possible that he is losing interest in you... Certainly seems odd that a guy that young isn't more interested in the physical aspects of the relationship. If it isn't you, however, this could also mean that he has alot on his mind. Stress can cause a lowered sex drive! Talk to him about it!

What the hell. Maybe he's gay. Seriously, your not even married yet and he is tired of sex with you. Your the girl, it's your job to shoot him down. E-mail me if you need a hand.

Maybe, he's stressed, or too busy? If he says its a 'routine' then yeah hes bored, so change it up, do it at weird times/places :) ex; mall washroom

he seems like a nice guy who knwos what hes doing

hes right, if u have sex alot ,it might someday get really really booring

and might end up being the center of ur relationship

sex is ok once in awhile

just not everyday lol

Uh oh.

Well, maybe he is getting bored...maybe you should stop asking. No offense, hon.

Maybe you should wait until he asks.

Talk to him about it. You'll get answers, trust me.

Ask him bluntly, "Are you getting bored with me, or something?" Or something along those lines...and then ask whatever comes to mind.

Good luck.

Sounds like he actually cares about you and not just your body dude sounds like a pretty good actually tell him how you feel but hes just trying to make sure their its still a caring relationship

Make yourself less available to him for a while and see if he notices. If he doesnt, maybe its time to move on to someone who appriciates you more.