Is this an ok thing to do?

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Background: I was really good friends with this girl (Erika) in middle and elem. school but we both moved during 6th grade. She moved far away. I just moved to another town close by then I moved back for 8th grade. Her and I still talk sometimes and are still kinda close. While she lived her, she really liked this guy (Ryan) and they had a relationship.  (Well what you call a relationship in 6th grade, more of a OMG you are so cute, will you be my boyfriend thing.) Then like a week later they "broke up" and every one seemed to forget and move on.

Question: We are in 10th grade now, am I am starting to like Ryan and I think he might like me too. I would never mess with any of my friends ex's but does Ryan count? I don't really think he does because it was like a week long thing is 6th grade. Erika is in another state and it is hard to get ahold of her to talk, but do you think that it would ruin our friendship if I made a move?

lola · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't worry about it, she won't mind, in fact neither might not even remember. Go get him :)

Checo · Answer

I think you should talk to your friend before you take any action. Your friend may be cool with it but you should just make sure just in case because if she ain't then she might get mad and its a better Idea if you avoid that. And moving does ruin friendships (learned by experience) but it may not, all depending on how much you stay in contact with each other but Just value the time and try to be happy.

hoped i helped 
  Tita Pachecerz

veggieluv · Answer

just tell her that you are going to. she has the right to know before you do but she doesn't have the right to decide for you

laurynneviaser · Answer

its been years anyway.
i say go for it.

or just talk to her about it

Anonymous · Answer

i ride the short bus to school

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Is this an ok thing to do?

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