???!!I'm so confused..state of emergency..Please i'd appreciate some honest but considerate answers..!!!:)?

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i started talking to this guy on "facebook" i added him randomly through friends you might know..and he looked familiar.so we started talking,and started talking about dating and stuff..obviously there was some kind of attraction,but we both knew we weren't really serious.unspoken thoughts.3mths later he comes to see me,we click and he shows me much attention,and hes really nice,even be4 he came 2 see me..but he hardly ask any research questions about me...instead its the opposite.i ignore that..nothing happens..he leaves,hes disappointed i know..but we still chat like everything is normal..then i ask him honest questions ,like what he wants ,no pressure,because of obvious reasons and most of his answers are positive,then when he next has to come and see me..he doesnt contact me after making all the plans..and im really upset ,because i actually like him and see something more.and if he wanted to end it,i'd appreciate it if he said so,or if something came up,i'd still appreciate it ,if he txtd me to let me know what was goin on.He used to text me every day,but today he remained silent.apart from there being a death or accident,i dont understand..what should i do.i textd him yesterday earlier asking what was going on but he didnt answer..im confused..help!!!!

Update:

lol..I'm so sorry about the lack of punctuation.Msn has converted me to short hand and i'm sad..:)Its in marriage and divorce because i want advice,from people who are experienced.Thanks

Shadow · Accepted Answer

Two words for ya kid:  Shift Key

Anonymous · Answer

Try not to read into this what your overactive imagination is telling you. You can not get a true perspective on a relationship from the computer. You are missing out on the element of emotion and general conversation. It's difficult to assume anything from talking online. 
Don't assume anything.
Don't panic...
Give him some space, you never know what is going on - on the other side of that computer....
He may be reading things into what you are saying too.
Try just to casually contact him once a week just to say hi, hope everything is going well for you...

Anonymous · Answer

I agree with the answerer above, this paragraph doesn't make sense. You lost me after Facebook and how about hitting the Enter key or using some commas, Geez!

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like he may have just enjoyed the flirting and wanted a lil sex.  Did u give it to him???  If the answer is no, I think thats why you are not hearing from him.  He just wanted a booty call and u r too much work:)

Patricia C · Answer

9 words for you sister....all he wants is to get into your pants!!!!!!
really ditch this boy and go for a real man. hes an idot. dont go for someone like that. there's a guy out there will treat you with respect and doesn't just want to get into your pants. hes a loser!!really find a real man. :) good luck love :) i hope that i helped you :)**hugs** oh and just something to think about. witch one do you want to choose
1.someone that you think is cute but just want to get into your pants or
2.someone that is sweet,kind, the one that you know that is going to be there for you. the one that loves you for who you are
**good luck sweet love**

Shar B · Answer

The guy isn't interested in you at this time.  He may be dating someone and so isn't contacting you.  Just stay cool, and wait for him to contact you.

Tom P · Answer

1)  Learn to use capital letters and punctuation properly

2)  Why is this in marriage and divorce?

texas tornado · Answer

Maybe the attraction for him just wasn't there, & it's his way of letting you down softly.

WeeHaa · Answer

I'm confused too!  That whole paragraph doesn't make sense!

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???!!I'm so confused..state of emergency..Please i'd appreciate some honest but considerate answers..!!!:)?

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